Gabbie Hanna's "Apology" Is Not Enough

Gabbie Hanna's "Apology" Is Not Enough

Rachel Oates

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@KayleyMackenzie
@KayleyMackenzie - 06.10.2024 18:58

Making a blanket “I’m sorry” video addressed to “everyone I’ve ever hurt or worked with” is not showing any kind of real change. It may be a personal exercise in forgiving herSELF but has absolutely nothing to do with making amends with other people. Taking accountability for your actions with other people is not done by just sending out a blanket “I’m sorry” to the universe essentially.

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@MrsBlack88
@MrsBlack88 - 07.10.2024 01:20

The way you talk about how Gabbie just kept going reminded me of Jessie’s words…“[Scary] is the perfect word to describe her. She bombards you, she will hit you below the belt, tell you some of the most hurtful shit you have ever heard from another human being.” I’m so sorry you both fell victim to such a person.

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@natbug001
@natbug001 - 07.10.2024 23:50

As someone who isn’t neurotypical I feel like this is the classic issue where a lot of people don’t understand that just because someone is neurodivergent doesn’t = they are a sweet person…. Like just because someone has a mental illness doesn’t mean they are automatically nice and caring people 😬

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@rumor3553
@rumor3553 - 08.10.2024 10:01

I agree with you 99.5%, gh was clearly manipulative and juvenile. The only point that sticks for me, and it is the one you apologized for, is Doggolescence. I completely believe you did not intend to be insulting with it, and I also agree that parody is not inherently insulting or mocking. But in this particular case, you are comparing her to a dog. Once again I do not think you intended the insult that could potentially imply, but comparing people to animals (and especially in this case of a woman to a female dog) can be read as very insulting and was probably a poor choice in hindsight.

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@kimberlyaustin7030
@kimberlyaustin7030 - 08.10.2024 20:27

I love how passionate you are about talking about poetry. That's why it was so nice watching them. Not big into poetry but you breaking it down and comparing it helped

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@nim5721
@nim5721 - 08.10.2024 22:33

based on her last tiktok, i don’t think she’s sorry either. i’m pretty sure she’s just manic

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@12markito
@12markito - 09.10.2024 09:27

I said that when I saw it. She will never be redeemed

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@PinkNeon791
@PinkNeon791 - 09.10.2024 21:08

Kind of weird comparison but gabbie’s whole DARVO+omg I can’t believe people would be so mean to lil old me (has been harassing said people for years) reminds me of the wizard book lady

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@clanobananashenanigans167
@clanobananashenanigans167 - 09.10.2024 22:49

i love the snoring dog in the first couple minutes

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@AlejandraStamato
@AlejandraStamato - 10.10.2024 00:56

Im sorry this happened to you by just offering honest criticism of a terrible piece of “art”. She just cant take criticism, even to this day, and you became an easy target

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@tiffany.Elizabeth.
@tiffany.Elizabeth. - 10.10.2024 18:42

The clip Gabbie spouting off at at the Oxford talk is genuinely embarrassing

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@MasonShmason
@MasonShmason - 10.10.2024 21:13

The fact that you've been through so much and still keep going is a testament to your resilience. You shouldn't have to be this resilient, but you are, and that speaks volumes about you as a person.

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@ebi605
@ebi605 - 10.10.2024 22:19

Gosh I remember when this whole thing was going down and I was so surprised bc you genuinely didn't do anything wrong and others have done much worse and nothing happened.
I also remember the whole jimmy snow thing, I watched him at the time and I think this is what made me unsubscribe 😅

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@bheatz22
@bheatz22 - 11.10.2024 00:38

Gabby Hannah is a bad person eith 0 redeeming qualities and the worst part is she'll never change.

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@kaskus7147
@kaskus7147 - 11.10.2024 20:39

How long did she even stay "friends" with Jimmy. It was a manipulation from the very start.

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@jonathanstern5537
@jonathanstern5537 - 12.10.2024 04:34

The Kira book actually reminds me of the Dadaist Manifesto's mention of poetry.

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@daisysarasaland.7697
@daisysarasaland.7697 - 12.10.2024 06:13

One bit of hypocrisy that always upset me is that there are videos from Gabbie legitimately venting about other content creators calling her ‘irrelevant’ and mocking her lower view count…and then without blinking does the same to Rachel. 🙃

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@jonathanstern5537
@jonathanstern5537 - 12.10.2024 16:44

I haven't used Twitter since I stopped getting paid to use Twitter. I occasionally check it for codes, but I haven't tweeted for about 2 years, and I never look for anything that might be toxic.

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@phillyphakename1255
@phillyphakename1255 - 12.10.2024 21:31

First video I've seen of yours. Your intelligence and attention to literary criticism is obvious and abundant. Serious commentary about literature is something I haven't explored since high school, quite refreshing.

There were a few moments where you weren't at your finest hour (for VERY valid reasons), but those were minor in the grand scheme of things, and weren't even pointed in the direction of the subject, but rather their friend.

I think the parody is great. I remember making a parody of our college's human rights club, and their motto/stickers "there's no such thing as a lesser person". There was a first year engineering design competition at the end of the year, I made a banner that said "theres no such thing as a lesser robot". Human rights are serious, I support them and all that, but you gotta admit that saying there aren't lesser robots in a literal competition which will numerically determine the lesser robot is pretty funny. Even at the deeper level, it makes a commentary about the actual inequalities in the real world. Theres some people like us who were going to a fancy college, theres some people who have little economic or educational opportunities. Theres some groups with 7 people, some groups with 2 people. As a result, the outcome was different, the people/robots with the structural advantages came out on top. Should it have been that way? No. But saying "there's no such thing as a lesser robot" is wrong, intentionally so.

Human rights and child abuse are not jokes, but they are fair game for well considered parody. You seemed to have done that.

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@BruceRobertson-mn6pg
@BruceRobertson-mn6pg - 13.10.2024 04:21

How do you speak for a living holy crap, please ramble more!

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@jonathanstern5537
@jonathanstern5537 - 13.10.2024 17:19

I actually got into an argument with a friend of mine over needing an apology to forgive over not needing one. He had this girlfriend who did something that upset him (I forget the specifics), she never apologized, but she did amend her behavior to not do it again. My argument was, she likely noticed that it upset you and amended her behavior accordingly. That should be enough. His was that, if she doesn't apologize, then her change in behavior could be just coincidental. We ended up agreeing to disagree.

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@jonathanstern5537
@jonathanstern5537 - 13.10.2024 17:53

I'm guessing that most of the people who claim you insulted her in your videos didn't actually watch your videos. They were just going by what she said.

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@jonathanstern5537
@jonathanstern5537 - 13.10.2024 18:12

"We know that people have a low sense of self control." Some people do, and some people don't. If there is someone who will hook up with any random person in sexy clothing or takes that as an invitation, that's their problem and their responsibility.

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@jonathanstern5537
@jonathanstern5537 - 13.10.2024 18:36

My god is Freyja, and I'm pretty sure she could kick Jesus's ass.

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@matrasia
@matrasia - 15.10.2024 17:20

Why even responding to her then? I can see how some people can take those vids as super staged. If everything was said and you know the truth - just stop reacting to lies. Or just admit you do need the drama in your life.

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@Antares8778
@Antares8778 - 16.10.2024 00:50

My conspiracy theory side makes me think Gabby turned fundie because she hopes you'd make a girls defined/paul&morgan/etc style video about her. With her most likely calculated reaching out specifically to JS, it wouldn't suprise me

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@meg5323
@meg5323 - 16.10.2024 03:12

If Gabbie and her deranged, co-dependent fans want to know what a harsh, hateful review really is: my 6th form English Lit teacher RIPPED UP my creative writing assignment right in front of me, and screamed in my face about how I'd never make it as a writer.

I would've given anything to have had a calm, well thought-out, constructive review like yours instead. 🩷

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@findingthebroom
@findingthebroom - 18.10.2024 21:14

holy shit this is actually insane

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@osummerx
@osummerx - 19.10.2024 06:36

Rachel, you're a really evil person damn...

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@amberreid1059
@amberreid1059 - 20.10.2024 07:51

I feel like this whole thing is just so confusing almost because it's LAUGHABLE how twisted this has gotten. When you send a book to a CRITIC who actually reviews books CRITICALLY and without bias you absolutely should be expecting a legitimate review and not a fluff review?
That right there shows a lack of either critical thinking on Gabbie's part OR that she is just a drama-loving human who intentionally starts this sort of stuff.

I'm so sorry you've had to deal with all of this. Mental breakdown or not, Gabbie's actions of being so hateful and innacurate when she has a platform that big is not acceptable or excusable.

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@speed0spank
@speed0spank - 21.10.2024 06:50

If Gabby had reflected on anything and changed she wouldn't be so far up her own ass. To think you can come back from everything in the past and pretend god fixed you and now you get to tell entire genders what to do is just narcissism.

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@kelly8361
@kelly8361 - 22.10.2024 23:53

I never learned the full context so came over for your perspective and holy shit…. you didn’t deserve all that. I had already written off her apology as fake because she doesn’t actually acknowledge in detail any of the harm her actions caused. And it’s SO rich of her screaming that you’re gaslighting everyone and then she’s literally doing that at oxford :’) saying you burn books???? :’)

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@brett9308
@brett9308 - 23.10.2024 10:43

Poetry is absolutely a complex art, and this is, unfortunately, the key aspect which many so-called "poets" are unable to grasp. All too many people think that poetry is simply a matter of writing line after line where the last word on a given line rhymes with the last word of the previous line. That's not poetry! Anyone can play "find the rhyming word".

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@brett9308
@brett9308 - 23.10.2024 11:55

A truly credible reviewer provides honest, objective critique, rather than pandering to the wants or needs of the author, people who orbit them, or the status quo. That credible reviewer is you. You could have refused to offer your appraisal of Dandelions and simply waved Gabbie away, jumping to the conclusion that it couldn't have been any better than her prior works -- an assumption that some people are hastily inclined to make. You gave it a chance as any good, open-minded reviewer would and for someone to try and pull you into undeserved and understandably unwanted drama really brings their character and general thought processes into question.

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@brett9308
@brett9308 - 23.10.2024 14:07

Sorry to spam your comments but I have to say this. Well, I don't HAVE to, but I'd like to. It's so ironic that you get called a narcissist yet you're not the one who goes into red alert meltdown mode in response to constructive criticism. Narcissists CANNOT tolerate any criticism at all. Unless they're constantly showered with praise they're wounded. The whole Christianity thing is just a facade, it's engineered to garner attention.

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@patriot-hj5vx
@patriot-hj5vx - 24.10.2024 21:57

Rach i think you called her a "bitch on the internet" in one of your videos and giggled about it - you're no saint babe

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@ethanwood2934
@ethanwood2934 - 27.10.2024 10:54

Only the shittiest people in the world pour gasoline on drama then convert religions to say god (the dude who nobody can show to exist) has forgiven me of my sins. That’s some weapons grade copium. Honestly you should take this as a win, you changed her entire worldview because she was too stupid to realize her poetry was dogshit.

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@inkorrektscenario
@inkorrektscenario - 29.10.2024 11:41

Comparing your intelligence based on your academic qualifications came of as quite elitist.

Also I don’t understand why you bring in your personal trauma repeatedly, it sounds like you’re trying to explain your behavior with the fact that you were having a very hard time in your personal life. But you still stand by everything you said and did, then i don’t understand how it’s relevant to bring it up. it’s a bit conflicting.

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@anusheinous
@anusheinous - 30.10.2024 22:31

I’m convinced Gabbie Hanna actually has a god complex. She literally thinks she’s uncriticizable and has never once shown any capacity to engage genuinely in any critique of her behavior or work.

I very seldom describe people as narcissistic because I think it’s a lazy way to say “I don’t like this person, they made me mad”. I’m not attempting to armchair diagnose her with any cluster B disorders and i use the word in a purely colloquial sense when I say Gabbie Hanna is a textbook narcissist.

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@misti-step
@misti-step - 01.11.2024 02:42

watching gabbie's insta stories, it really is like shes talking from another world with a different set of facts

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@rosie3473
@rosie3473 - 01.11.2024 05:35

I’m telling you now she is extremely jealous of you and finds you a threat there just isn’t any other explanation to explain her weird grudge against you

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@user-vi9ng4dt5r
@user-vi9ng4dt5r - 03.11.2024 11:22

I LOVE how her toxic fans haven't succeeded in silencing you, Rachel! You're absolutely beautiful, wise beyond your years and intelligent♡

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@VoiceoftheBoa2
@VoiceoftheBoa2 - 04.11.2024 22:36

I was watching your review of her book "Dandelion" earlier today, and I felt as though I was back in college, in my arts courses, listening to feedback from my professors. I thought your review was fair and constructive, in the way that a negative review should be. I didn't see anything wrong with it.... Then again, I've learned how to take constructive criticism...

I am sorry that you haven't received an apology from her, because I feel you deserve one.

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@catssewingg
@catssewingg - 07.11.2024 07:52

Omg her saying that everyone was loving her book for the first two years I’m sorry but there’s no way that that is true hahahaha

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@speed0spank
@speed0spank - 07.11.2024 23:42

Don't bring children to the beach or water parks. There are bodies everywhere! They might be scarred. Why are western countries like this?

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@corinabanu7556
@corinabanu7556 - 11.11.2024 18:33

I used to be subscribed to you on a previous account - I found you cause of your critique video (the first one) and I watched it all go down when she lost it on you. Safe to say her new shtick absolutely did not fool me - she's still a vile, mean girl; she just pretends she likes god, and virtue and emotional openess. You are fully justified to be angry at her still, SHE HASN'T EVEN APOLOGISED TO JESSI!!
Honestly I was glad when I originally heard she went away, I'd hoped she'd just stay away so everyone could have a semblance of peace but of course in typical narc fashion, she's back to causing drama and problems for no real reason other than attention :')
Honestly Rachel I wish I could give you a hug. What you're going through isn't humane. You deserve some peace and quiet and much, much better than this.

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