How Men Think After A Relationship Breakup #relationshipadvicefortheladies #blackman #blackwoman

So true factual

Facts

Love you Girls♥️& agree 200%👍🏻
Finally someone gets me 👍🏻

This is true

Bible saya Satan is a Man. He seek to kill steal destroy. Hmm.

Wheres the lie?

A lot of men don't realize that they're not competing with other men, they're competing with NOTHING.

Is my space cleaner, quieter, less screamy and less stressful with you gone? If yes, i'm not stsying in the relationship.

Just be generally pleasant & not an active encumbrance and most women will talk about how great you are to all their friends.

This is so true! Every time we would fight over anything he’d accuse me of having someone else… nah bruh, I just don’t like YOU.

Nearly 60 here. I don't think I've met a man who isn't actually looking for a mother. It's why the relationship starts to feel like too much work for us, they a mix of emotionally needy toddlers, and imagined persecuted teenagers. Who try and prove they don't really need us by shopping for their next girlfriend all while in a relationship with you. Honestly it's just not worth it the older you get.

We are trying to recuperate from being with you. Don't need another man

Women also change who we are for our man. So we need the time to find ourselves again.

Men think we think like them and we don't. We are better than that. We are relieved you are gone!

When men say pick better man... there is no better manso we are not picking you. We choose ourselves.

He left his woman so he could go to the gym 🤣🤣🤣

Facts!

Now you have to also move out of state so they don't off you.

She's 100000% accurate😂😂

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My daddy dumb axx told me in front of his dumb axx girlfriend that the best way to get over someone is to get under them.
Pray my strength in the Lord, y'all🤦🏾‍♀️

This just further proves why every accusation nem have about women being 'all alone' is just a projection of themselves. Women can handle being alone no problem because once we're finally free from a toxic relationship, we take the time to heal, reconnect with old friends and work on our hobbies. We glow up and regain our happiness. Meanwhile nem just jump right into the next relationship because they can't handle being alone. They usually don't have genuine friendships that are sustainable, and they'd rather just find another woman to drain than go to therapy and work on themselves.

I’ve heard that from men SO many times! 😂
They can’t fathom that the woman is just sick of them and would rather be single.

Older women let down the women who come after them by NOT being truthful about the truly insidious nature of men as a collective. Not All is a truly diabolical yet effective phrase that prevents ppl from understanding the exception vs the rule. The best choice is for most if not all women to remain celibate before marriage. It won’t ever happen, but God’s design really protects women. Men have convinced us to abandon God’s wisdom, so that makes women male worshippers. It never ends well.

I love what this lady said. Holy cow, she is so on point. Every relationship I ever ended was for me. Only once, did I meet someone right before I split. But, that was because we had a relationship ending fight before I had to travel for work and I met someone who wanted me, which solidified I would leave because my abusive partner never made me feel that positive about myself. I didn't cheat, I just realized how attractive and valuable I felt when I was interacting with another person who brought out my best qualities. And what did the man I broke up with do after our 6 years together sans a ring? He proposed thinking that would keep me from leaving. That was over 30 years ago and it was the right choice. I just should never have ever married. Marriage is a trap.

Men will live alone and die alone misrable and they won’t have cats

That woman was right. Most men don’t leave one relationship until they have another woman already lined up. Most men don’t work on themselves even if they get dumped and don’t have any dating prospects - they just go out looking for the next woman.

Big Facts!!! And some of them still be miserable not understanding why... it's because you need to heal "you" ... and vice versus because I know women like that, that'll jump from man to man. And the killing part is some of those heifers run across decent men and they damage the Hell out of them 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️,... and it goes on and on, sadly 😔

I work on myself and take my time, most times I take a 1-2 years off from dating

So true

The women online are speaking facts. I love it 😂

Yep.

And we often leave that relationship as a better person because we did our part to work on that relationship. And then once it's over, we work on ourselves again because we realise we should have left a lot sooner and what was wrong with us that we didn't see that?

I don't fool.with it , they messy

So true!!!

Omg!!! Pink looks so good on you girl 💕 had to say it 😻😻😻

And girl...a lot of the time it's because of what we went through with said man that we don't want to even try with another man. Our trust is broken, we're tired, we've wasted too much time and too much of ourselves to start that nonsense all over again.

I told a man that just last night 💯

They feel most lonely when they're single, we feel most lonely in a bad relationship.

Amen to this ❤❤

truth!

That's why they never can ever imagine how one can be happy alone because it's them who can never be alone for even just a few months like she said just to work on themselves. And if they are alone they are still hooking up smh honestly it's very sad.

They just can’t fathom the thought of us not needing them 🙄

Ladies in here be honest with yourselves. Most of you may jump into another relationship, rather meaningful, or friend with benefits. This is prepared long before she leaves. After the new victim is located; wala 🪄, Casper The unFriendly Ghost🤣🤣🤣🤣

But you still didn’t like him no more… Sun with the new fling ladies? 🤦🏾

Or man. Oops ‼️

She's right we leave for peace of mind and inner happiness

This is true.

I got this thing. You can break up with me 2 times. I always warn them. That's my red line. Came to the third break up. I was told to think about it. Three months later. I get a call. Are you done thinking about it. Huh? He said it's been 3 months! Oh? I guess not. Click.

Iam single

Iam not looking waiting on the Lord for the right one working on .me

I left one man because he didn't want to marry...he was crying the next day. I left another man because he cheated on me....he was crying the next day. I left another one because he was controlling.....he wanted me back. Don't know if he cried though.😂

My ex couldn’t understand i left becoz i was done with his behavior and when i took all the courage to leave him he asked me is there someone else...i rather be single than marry some shitty man ! 😐

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