Narcissism | 7 Traits

it just dawned on me lots of business leaders fit this category after watching this video. they could lay off lots of thousands of workers and just blame it on the market situation, as if it's an every day fact of life.

These people are very good at hiding all of these qualities though. They can even control rage as well

it is my son who is one, and if i go no contact with him il would mean never see my grandson one year old never again………..help me 🇨🇦

Omg I've met so many ppl with these traits and I'm thinking of how I used to be .

I’ve worked for two narcissist before and this video is absolutely spot on. These folks are nuts and difficult to be around for sure let alone work for. You have to stay clear of a narcissist if at all possible.

Another sign of a narsasist , is a person that has chosen to be a queer person. They use that narsasist arrogance to hide the fact that they are queer

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Boy you hit the nail on the head.😮

Every one in a narcissists in someones life...and every one blaming each other.😂😂

My ex gf had almost all of this traits but i gotta say there was no problem with shared custody, no fight at all and she was fighting constantly about the most minor things.

We all have someone in mind listening to this!

I hit all 7 but mine is covert😢

Every single person in existence has varying levels of narcissism

I know someone with all of these seven traits. An immediate family member did a test for it on him and it said he has narcisistic personality disorder.

How do you get them to do something about it? He didn't know what gaslighting is and that he frequently does it. I showed him a graphic with different forms of gaslighting described. He doesn't seem to want to change thus doesn't care that he hurts people by what he says and his rages.

They don't let you get more than a few words in before going back to talking about what they want cutting you off midway through a sentence or point you need to convey. They will talk about something they have already talked to death more than once making you listen to the same thing several times.

Too many people confuse lack of empathy for apathy. You can be extremely empathic, but not give a shit, that's apathy. As extremely empathic myself it gets tiresome of everyone coming to me with their problems so yes I stopped caring about helping them.

I think a narcissist is a very dangerous person be careful 🥺

Pretty sure I understand Putin better now.

Damn. Thats literally my brother.

I'm just here learning how to act like one since women love them.

💯true

So so so true !!!!! She is brilliant

"their dog and pony show".... that cracked me up 😂

Politicians...... enough said

What if it's legal name was Supreme King Arturo Lord Montezuma Earth GoD Xocoyotzin

I am married to one,well I separated from one

They are a pain in the ass

Can’t live with one , not this one

I just don't understand why is it funny to point out someone is narcissistic? It's an illness. Probably they suffer too. Don't make fun of them please. 😢

I think that Contempt should be in any list of the key narcissistic traits. This goes beyond lack of empathy to active disparagement of others. It is in the sneer , the negative judgement, the put down , the way in which people the narcissist does not rate are ignored or given the silent treatment. It is the counterpoint to the narcissists grandiose view of themselves but of course at an unconscious level it is how the narcissist feels about their own true self , as opposed to the False Self, and it is being projected onto others as a defence.

Being around people who are narcissists can overwhelming and exhausting and sometimes you’ll likely to find narcissists at work and other times you’ll likely to have a family member that’s a narcissist as well like your aunt or a cousin. In my case, I have a aunt who sometimes is a narcissist because she wants to have her way all the time and she thinks that she’s better and perfect than anyone else. And if she doesn’t get her way, she’ll likely get very upset. And my mom and I try to prove her wrong sometimes but sometimes it’s not easy. And I think of another sign of her narcissistic behavior is that she can be demanding and that makes me feel irritated. So what am I supposed to do? Well I don’t want to do anything to upset her and I don’t want to confront her and question her of why does she think that she’s right all the time. But I sincerely hope that her narcissistic behavior will come to a stop and hopefully she’ll start to learn about the virtue of humility and learn of how to be humble. It’s the same thing with her older son as well. I try not to be a narcissist at all because I don’t want to be arrogant and egotistical. I rather practice the virtue of humility. And I even have a friend who’s married to a guy who’s likely a narcissist and why? Because he has full control of her and the children and he doesn’t want her mom to visit the children at all and the worst part is that she can’t speak her mind at all towards him. She’ll just do whatever he says. So it seems like she’s a slave to him. I honestly don’t know what she sees in him. And how do I know that he’s a narcissist? Well because I was a guest at their wedding and when the time came for the celebration, I tried introducing myself to her husband but he obviously had no interest of getting to know me at all and I tried more than once to get to know him but he didn’t care at all and ignored me and that’s how I know that he’s a narcissist.

I think you need to enjoy the person. Time will cause them to really surface. Enjoy your life, narcissist will identify themselves.

Narcissists can fool therapists. Its scary😮😮

Wow! This female I encountered was definitely a narcissist. Talk about lack of empathy, entitlement, grandiose, and all the rest. She was the master of them all. The lady didn't care about no ones feelings except her own. Sad!

A lot of narcs dont completely have an inability to have empathy. They often use it to manipulate and entrap u, especially if they need u to keep them validated and okay

I would say run!

Another trait, they make you feel that you have everything wrong in you and would never validate your feeling cos they lack feelings.
If they can’t win the conversation, they start to show the rage show to scare you. They are selfish and never accept their wrong doings.

Quite a few of my family members are narcissists and my brother is one on steroids and full blown alcoholic, but in denial with both when challenged. I can't stand there Fantasy Facebook lives or any narcissist in general, don't won't to be around these type of people, horrible the lot of them.

I didn't know about narcissism until I dated a narcissist for 3 and a half months I lived with him at first. He looked thru my personal belonging lied about his age tried to keep in a state of confusion drained me emotionally called me crazy while he acted like a mad man. He would over react about everything blamed me for everything that was wrong in his life. Always said that's not my fault that's not my problem even when he was the problem. He put me down with words he would threaten to kick me out. He actually had a chain link fence with a chain and a pad lock around the property and never gave me a key to gate or home until he moved out. I felt like I was in prison. I couldn't be myself around him. He would get furious when I said no to intimacy and even canceled plans last minute if he knew we weren't going to be intimate I went no contact in September it has been the best and healthiest decision I could make for myself. I do struggle financially because he did help me by groceries and clothes and things I needed sometimes But his gifts were never free it always came with a cost. And that cost was my freedom to speak when I wanted to to go where I wanted and the biggest cost was my sanity and self esteem as he would cruely brow beat me with words. 25 years ago his son committed suicide when he was only 20 years old I can see why if how he treated me is an indication of how he treated his son. I could never make him happy. I had to battle the demon of suicide while I was with him.I am 48 and don't give up easy but I don't think a 20 year old could handle that. They are very impressionable and sometimes still finding themselves. I don't hate him but I know that I will never go back. My only regret is not ending the relationship a month earlier. I guess I thought he may change but without a lot of professional help from a therapist they never do. He was kind of dumb in the fact that he never learned from his mistakes and thought he could be mean cold and heartless and still have physical intimacy with me. The first way to get help for a problem is to admit u have a problem and he will never do this. I use to say what just happened I did nothing wrong except voice my opinion why is he acting this way? One day he said something really mean to me and I said u need to apologize to me for saying that. He said I will not apologize. U r in the relationship alone and as u put in the effort to make it work they put in none. They are experts at lying trying to confuse you and control you and they try to fake kindness and caring but I promise if u pay attention their true colors will come out. I am thankful for videos like this one I learn a lot from them and I hope that by sharing my story I can help others. God Bless You and God Bless America!

Many of them are ExxJ types on the Myers Brigg

What if the person only goes to the best places has the best weather pics? The best investments is that a narcissist

Ok, so what do you do if your therapist is a malignant narcissist?

CHARMING......YES😮

Wow, she just described Trump!

If I had a £ for every time my father* said the words ‘no I didn’t’….my goodness I’d be loaded 🤑

*who clearly has a narcissistic personality disorder’

They don’t just gaslight. Gaslight is followed by ultimatums or punishments.
They won’t go to therapy. Mine denied couple therapy everytime. I got myself into one and my therapist said your husband sounds like a narcissist when I showed her messages and other proof of how he drives me crazy gaslighting and then acting innocent and calm. And shifting topic and having no empathy and acting “victim” to his clown family and friends.
And I am glad to be having divorce and having no child with this batshit crazy person.

Thank you!

Europe and USA are always narcissistic against developing countries

With all respect but 15 seconds can't be enough to spot a narcissist.

Most things are not absolute.

It's also entirely possible that someone talks the whole time about himself at least most of the time without being a narcissist. He can truly care about the other person it just happens that he get's asked a question and then just can't stop yapping but when he remembers ohhh damn I haven't ask enough questions back then he will still ask. And he shows that he cares about others always especially when his mind is peaceful without being distracted by his own thoughts...

My point, people can talk about themselves and their thoughts while forgetting about the other while still caring

And that's definitely not something you find out within 15 seconds.

I mean, I would agree that you can get a feeling about a person really fast but being confident to judge about a person within 15 seconds is a bit much.

I mean, that's just one example.

I mean yes she pointed out in the end that this isn't always the case but I thing their need to be more empathize that all these things can help to spot a narcissist but are not absolute.
And yes charm can be deceiving but I have the feeling that she would tend to misjudge someone because of his charm.