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It’s flabbergasting how black men think women should accept literally ANY man because she may have made a mistake. One thing I stand by is NEVER giving a black man a child . Sorry not sorry
ОтветитьNo matter what you say you bring they will never accept it. I don’t answer this question. If you don’t see value in me I’m not for you. I’m ok with that.
ОтветитьSo we are not the most educated but 67% of black degrees are held by BW and only 33% are BM. He really thought he ate with that correction. Lol
ОтветитьY’all talking to men…..it’s like taking to a brick wall….4B👊👊👊👊👊
ОтветитьDo NOT say “I live on my own” on the internet… especially amongst trolls 😢 Your safety and privacy must come first.
ОтветитьConclusion: the men didn’t listen to what she actually said. They listened to respond and showed how offended they were. 🤦🏽♀️ same old thing. They don’t care about how much she makes but complain about women being “gold diggers” and talk about 50/50 (the men she needs to stay away from anyway) They don’t care about her education but don’t want to be with someone that’s uneducated. she even named not having children, hasn’t been married, etc. she named things that men like yet they didn’t pay attention to any of that. Then when she talks about her having high standards they still want to say women that have high standards like the bottom of the barrel?? They have standards for a reason. Lawd help us 🤦🏽♀️
ОтветитьMost of the guys with the disparaging comments are with dusties that cannot compete.
ОтветитьSoooo these guys are stupid. Do they understand that having your own shit and being accomplished helps them? In a person seriously looking to build a family, that is important. These dudes are stupid. Girl, divest. And divest wisely.
ОтветитьSoooo these guys are stupid. Do they understand that having your own shit and being accomplished helps them? In a person seriously looking to build a family, that is important. These dudes are stupid. Girl, divest. And divest wisely. These guys just want a girlfriend…someone to use for free or at a discount. Their responses give… “I’m not looking for a commitment.” Because if they were, what she listed is actually valuable. She knows that.
ОтветитьWhy do grown ass men reduce a woman's worth and or accomplishments to basic adulting (cooking and cleaning), being a maid, mattress and mule (wife and mother). Fear all men. Trust.
Ответитьi knew that all the ugly guys were gonna enter her comments i was cracking up some of these faces
ОтветитьThe fact that these women are being berated for having boundaries and confident tells you the quality of these men. Do not settle for someone who do not accept you bringing yourself to the table as a transaction.
ОтветитьMen don't care about your money or education but are constantly talking about "building with them". WHAT ARE WITH BUILDIND DAMARCUS, LEGO HOUSES?!🙄 If we both broke and dumb, WHERE WE GOING, TO SLEEP?!😒
ОтветитьMen will ALWAYS list their accomplishments and specs, but belittle women who do the same. Men resent women who accomplish anything that doesn't singularly serve men.
ОтветитьThey want a wife slave. Massa don't care about their slave's accomplishments or god forbid she thinks she's a whole human being.
ОтветитьSo why do the rich marry only the rich ?? Because money and finance matter.
ОтветитьAll I hear them say you’re getting old you’re getting old blahh blahh blahhh. So they ain’t get old too? Did they find a youth fountain that stops them from aging?
ОтветитьHaving standards is fine but you have to make sure that you actually qualify for the men that meet those standards. Too many bw are demanding qualities in men that they are not even qualified for. Please be sure you are at least fit, feminine and childless before presenting a man with a list of standards and requirements!
ОтветитьThese "men" are so boring 😴
ОтветитьThe man who claimed he is successful is OBVIOUSLY NOT😅😅😅😅😅😅. Success does not have to pronounce it on SM in a raggedy t shirt
ОтветитьMen: What do you bring to a tabke?
Me: Leave my table. You are not invited.
The 3rd guy gets it!🤷🏽♀️
ОтветитьAll black women end up as single babby mammas
ОтветитьMen are incapable of giving women what they want. Women want love, men want domination (Genesis 3:16). Domination is hate, so men bring hate to the table, therefore has nothing for women because money is not enough, which is what the lady is saying, she has her own money. Singleness is better (1 Corinthians 7:38).
ОтветитьI wish the girls would shut up!! Just live your life and be silent. Move in silence! Everything doesn’t have to be a trend or movement.
ОтветитьWhy do the men look so unkempt & dehydrated. Like can ya'll bathe and clean up your musty beards Sassies.
ОтветитьCan you imagine living with most of the men that commented in this thread? They lack comprehension skills and act like they are competing with you. Can you imagine the amount of sabotaging and arguments you would have to deal with?
ОтветитьSo women who don't bring something to the table are bums. And women who bring something to the table are missing the point. Bringing something to the table doesn't matter because this isn't a job interview. So why ask the question if you don't want to know what she brings to the table?
ОтветитьMy thing is you want me to tell you what I bring to the table like I can’t sell you a pipe dream. No matter what you’ll have to see for yourself to confirm. Actions speak louder than words
ОтветитьSmart young lady. I support women making better decisions for THEIR lives. Continue to thrive ladies. ❤️👍🏿
ОтветитьThese are poor men speaking. Upperclass men do care about a woman's professional and educational accomplishments and accolades. They have reputations to uphold, family who wants the money kept in the family thru the generations. Uneducated women of no substance cannot move through these upperclass rooms with other upperclass wives. Ivy league educations are the standard
ОтветитьThey think we want to get married and being alone with cats is so bad. This is actually an ideal situation 😂
ОтветитьThat man said don’t approach “What do you bring to the table as an interview question.” 🥴 It literally is an interview question. That’s where it started, then it made its way into the dating world.
Ответитьsigh the mortgage prank separated the internet from reality. In REALITY…the men are doing backflips to get a woman, secure a wife, secure a household & are doing “simp behavior”(what they call it) to maintain it. In real life, men do the exact opposite of what they say on the internet. Therefore ladies BE QUIET…men are willing to do the most to secure a wife & keep one because they know we make their lives better.
A lot of the men online complaining are incels and in real life cannot obtain a good woman and are projecting. I see it happen all the time in heavily diverse & populated Metro city I live in across all
Races…STOP broadcasting your standards to the public! Continue to focus on being SILENT, feminine, confident( not arrogant), & accomplished with high standards. It doesn’t go unnoticed contrary to what they say…
In a 50/50 i relationship, the same skills and assets she has would matter.
ОтветитьFirst, dude😂😂😂. Looking like a rusty spring. Weathered with 0 potential.
ОтветитьIt’s funny because as a bisexual woman I’ve never had issues meeting other woman’s standards. Hell most are easy af to excelle past.
Like yes ma’am. You want to go out tonight? Want dishes done? Want movie in? I got you.
I get to also learn her hobbies to bond with her.
There was a video of a famous couple (hip hop and rnb). It was a short clip about the husband eating whatever his wife cooks. Someone commented how nice it is that the wife is domesticated. The wife is a Grammy award winning singer but her being domesticated is what stood out. It was insulting and shows how much emphasis is put on cooking and cleaning when it comes to women.
Cooking and cleaning are basic life skills. It's not gender based.
Why is everything fighting? 😭
ОтветитьThese men are butthurt that women have required more than the bare mininum. Most of these "men" are bottom tier men who can only afford "paid service" not an actual valuable woman. BM are the last group of men who need to be complaining about women having standards as they cannot even meet the bare minium of less than zero 🤣also they are butthurt that BW have raised the bar and burned the cape so now they are outside in the streets they want to be a part of so bad! Great job BW keep raising the bar so the struggle bandit cannot reach it!
ОтветитьThat first man has the audacity to even respond 😮. Edit : it’s always the funny looking ones without a woman that have the most to yap about.
ОтветитьThe dude saying the study was referring to men clearly did not see the female percentage was 67%. The study showed how women are dwarfing men in education. And it is clear that this is happening across all ethnic groups.
ОтветитьOf course men dont care about stuff like house and car, that's why they always leave the wife and agree with her taking all of this stuff, because they dont care 😂😂😂.they dont care on paying child support and alimony, you dont see this?
They dont wanna a high value women because they cant control her, they wanna a broke women that they can treat with dont pay child support.😂😂😂
Mam. Your “degrees” and “salary” are not a flex. All I hear is a ton of debt. Also that “studies show” about women more educated and making more money is complete false and disproven. Men have the upper hand they have access to marriage and comfort and resources. Your SLP degree has a salary cap. 200k a year max if you’re nasty. I hate this back and forth and men and women are doing but women need to also wake up and stop living in delusion.
ОтветитьLol, even the Filipina wife has had it. 😂
All though if I were her, I'd just stop. I know I'm not gonna explain to them anymore. If they don't understand it. Not my problem!
Well, in looking for life partner if u were to have a spouse that make 70k before taxes, what provision would be in place for that spouse on maternity leave, and then if they decide to stay home.
ОтветитьI think these dudes missed the point of why she listed her degrees and job, she's saying she accomplished these things abd expects her future partner to be on her level, nothing wrong with that.
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