This is the MOST Damaging Aspect of Naarcissistic Abuse #narcissisticabuse #narcisist #npd

Your are always like my Aunt M used to call a genuine person. You're 1 in a million. Keep up the good journey and good deeds. You are transforming the universe on unparalleled levels. 1 Luv.

My father...

you endure so much but I AM GETTING THERE I WAS SO PATHETIC YOU know JILL we all want love we all want to be loved and we feel if we just love someone so much they will love and want us in the same way? no not true. i went with a guy to support and i knew he was all that was not what I WAS BUT I AM PROUD OF MYSELF. and i am so proud of what i took what i ENDURED. and that i am still here. I HAVE A FEELING IF THE NARC J was here he would tell go with your stupid BAKER AND PATRICK. i even ignored PATRICK BECAUSE OF THE NARC, I AM pathetic. I HAVE A CUTE SONG FOR PATRICK I WANT TO SHARE WITH HIM. if he would let me. THE KINKS YOU REALLY GOT ME. just change the girl part. JILL I FEEL SO GOOD TODAY. i had to drop my support to you. i have a feeling if i was with BAKER RIGHT NOW I WOULD GET SMOTHERED IN HUGS AND KISSES, i am so sorry i hurt him. i hurt so many people by supporting that guy. YOU WILL NEVER SEE HIS NAME ON THIS CHANNEL AGAIN. and I CAN LOVE BOTH BAKER AND PATRICK. i can. poor PATRICK. he would be nothing but nice to me. and see the guys i date and talk to THAT TALK WORKS WITH THEM. i don't have to be that way to get a man. not a good one anyway sure men will like you but REALLY IS IT YOU THEY LIKE? no baby it is not? I FEEL GOOD AND AS I SAID I WRITE SAD THINGS AND THERE IS SO MUCH SADNESS IN THIS WORLD i have been through so much pain i appreciate you and the other hosts letting me support the guys i like on here. I REALLY DO. if i was a host and you needed to talk to me or i was your shoulder that day so be it i am here and you could talk freely. i know many people in this community don't know CLEVELAND OHIO AND BOY ARE YOU LUCKY YOU DON'T. we have the freezer literal 6 months of the year we are polar bears and then we SWEAT. my co-worker and i sweat all day wiping sweat off our foreheads. WE LOVE IT. there is PRIDE IN WORKING HARD. doing it for you. we laugh at our sweat and I SMELL LIKE THAT AND what the residents eat. I AM SORRY IF I SCARED PATRICK I DID NOT MEAN TO I REALLY DO LIKE HIM. why he still wants me as his supporter i will never know. BUT I AM GLAD HE DOES. i feel so good and when you feel good you WANT TO SHARE IT. don't give in BREATHE IN AND OUT LAUGH AND COUNT TO 10 you will be ok. you will. i know you will

dance to KENNY LOGGINS footloose it feels good. from now on i am supporting and standing by GOOD MEN AND WOMEN WHO ARE LIKE ME. DANCE AND SING LIKE NO one is watching to quote the female narc. LOVE YOU JILL.

They want you to lose your temper so they can play the innocent, helpless victim...then tell everybody.

Sounds like she's talking about my wife. I'm dead serious.

Being fully betrayed @ birth by both parents & of course their golden child as well took 58 years of my life.
Im 3 years woke & the least confused I've ever been!

Thank you. That’s why my narcissist always tries to spin the narrative to misjudge my intentions. They want me to be confused about myself. What really sucks is when others coincide with the narcissist’s false perceptions & judge me to be guilty. It’s a world of misjudgment.

That's so true it's dangerous.

UGH!! RIGHT ON! THIS DUDE THAT I AM ENTANGLED WITH IS STRAIGHT FROM ANOTHER PLANET! I don't know how I got myself in this mess but this is a challenging one! And we parted this evening just as you stated!!! I was confused, And I said Oh boy, this feeling brings back memories 🙂‍↔️I don't have temporary amnesia😮

It's easier for them to brainwash you when you're confused. They are so disgusting

Do they treat their children this way?

This is the stage where the abuser is at currently trying to tell me that my perception of things are incorrect. That My mind is playing tricks on me. Wicked as hell. But this abuser will not be successful, they will not break me down they can only recruit others to join them in the lies that they conjured up .Shalom

Brilliant 👏 👏

I totally agree I still get panic attacks and when I see the x Covert/Narc I shake inside and my stomach goes into a tight knot and I feel threatened by his very presence even though we are parted nine years . I am 76 yrs now and I will take the whole trauma and experience to the grave with me . Fifty years was too long with him he did a persistent and deliberate job of ruining my life while he cheated and tried to break my Spirit and take my Soul . He didn’t get them . God helped me by removing him from my table and setting me on a new path. I however have been damaged and scarred and will never be the same again . Man’s inhumanity to Man and to Woman it’s rife in the World today!

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I've had 33 years of my life stolen because of this. Lost my childhood, adolescence and early adulthood in every possible way. Most of all I lost myself and my mind, in the literal sense even, as you end up psychotic. Not one but two narcissists as parents. Oh and of course I've gone an entire life self hating and desperately trying to diagnose myself because of course, I had to be the one who was damaged. The confusion is soul shattering, but I never stopped searching for my real self and trying to remember who I was before the entraining. Curse them and curse whoever tries to break your spirit.

Thank you for this eye opening video about narcissistic abuse! 😇🤝

Love your work woman and your creative colour schemes...❤

And also the triangulation…

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Yes

😂😂😂 if it walks a like a duck it’s a duck yah just be sensitive believe in yourself maybe yah wouldn’t be so damn gullible

Survival mode was my home for decades…. 🫢
I’m waiting for my freedom.

This is so true and sad. Distance is a huge relief. It all becomes overwhelming 😢

This is very helpful... their fantasy becomes confusing

Passive aggressive narc... result, well our basic needs are met 🤷‍♀️. No one else "stayed". People question your mental health to not do different and let you be. If it was that bad, you'd leave. They think. You must like being a victim. They think. Can they even trust you. They think. They don't need your narc or your dysfunction, they say. This is how the narc controls every aspect of your life, but all along you are holding the key to the jail cell and the door has been open and is open. One day at a time.

This channel is the best by far👍

Robbing you of your peace is their favorite weapon.

It's extremely dangerous and can destroy a life before it begins.
Many have simply committed suicide or become narcissists themselves in oder to adopt their own life.
A narcissist will contribute to a person's insanity and finish the job by providing the proof in front of others.
They have absolutely no boundaries. Children especially are abused by such people and grow up believing that they aren't normal when they are actually normal and intelligent.
In the end, the narcissist always loses.
They have nothing but their own lies.

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It's paralyzing until you're done. And when you're done, you will know because you won't buy into it anymore.

Co-parenting with one and yesterday he played with my mind and said it was a "joke". Moving stuff, pretending it's not him and what he moved wasn't where I remember, then once i grow frustrated looking he tells me it's him all along. I was so ANGRY cause it reminded me of what i had gone through for 6 years when we were together. I decided to gas light him back later 😈 He thought he was going crazy and became frustrated just as I was when he did it. After some time i told him the truth. I did not explain myself or speak on what he did. I just grinned and let it be. Two can play this game. I stopped trying to reach common ground with a covert narc, they are wired different.

Wow! Keep educating people🙏

This was the worst part. No matter what everything involving me was wrong in every way.

Lies Sux

Love thyself
And
Know You
Know
The
Truth!!!

RISE

When I can find out how to escape a narc that has me financially paralyzed and there is of course no one to turn to at all, I'll have a little faith.

I realize now, the only way I survived my parents is that I journaled since I could write, at the age of 5. I read my journals, and there are so many traumatic things that I actually forgot. I realized there is such a thing as repressed memories last year, when I rediscovered my tax documents from when my mother stole about $180,000 from me in 2004. I forgot about it. That's how traumatizing it was. It was when I was in post-graduate school, and I had other things going on at the same time. Overwhelmed. I guess my brain chose to forget about that in favor of focusing to finish my studies. I forgot. This whole issue came up again because when my father was dying, she was making crazy financial decisions. I re-read my journals and remembered the IRS audited me in 2006, because of that whole debacle. My mother didn't care in 2004 or 2006. And she didn't care in 2024 either. No contact has LITERALLY meant survival for me and my husband and my kids. She is truly a psychopath. She still tries to hoover me, voicemails, letters saying "I love you. I miss you." It's creepy. It's downright creepy. She doesn't know what love is.

I was attacked by psychopath neighbors last year. They stalked me, slandered me, threatened me and totally wore me down. I got a protection order against the father first thing after it started. The order was not upheld by police ( county sheriff,I live in a township). This put me in prime condition to be subject to a narcissist. Sure enough,my knight in shining armor showed up. He love bombed me,future faked etc. and even after years of getting information on these demons I got hooked in. I was very vulnerable and it only lasted 3 months but it was/ is ugly. I got rid of him very fast ( using very ugly tactics). But I recognized the downward spiral on my life and he is gone very fast. Bye creep.

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Don’t engage and stay away from them !

Jesus Christ ❤s me and say I am enough as are you. God’s not Dead🙏😇

Yes! You articulated it so well!

You develop imposter syndrome because your reality is so distorted by their constant gaslighting.

Im so so stuck right now...this all makes perfect sense and i feel like such an idiot and looser! Ugh...hiw to break away though???

So true. Then you're stuck. Leaving them...feels wrong. Like you're abandoning them...after everything they've put you thru.

Ty

I need these reminders

They have memory lapses . Prof vaknin. So they believe their confusion