How To Successfully Break Up With Someone

The strongest reason I think is ...
People change. Maybe your partner starts to become unpleasant. You have tried EVERYTHING. The older you get it's harder to just walk away.

thnxs dude,

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It’s been 6 months and she loves me and I don’t have those strong feelings. So that’s my reason. She’s not it. I’d rather call it now instead of waiting and making it worse.

This is so hard. I love him so much and care about him. I’ve never had someone that adores me so much and protects me. The energy between us is amazing and equally reciprocated. But we are so different, we don’t have much in common and I’m afraid we will grow bored of each other. We also don’t agree on many things as I’m more liberal and he’s strict. Will I regret breaking up with him? He’s my best friend

If you are living in the bedroom.... Living on the separate floors of the home, that's a good reason YES!!!!

Thank you.🙏🏼

I'm sorry we're all here together, I hope everyone is ok <3

I really love her but its like i have some health problems because of which i Don't want to talk to her not only her not with anyone i am frustrated i have the hidden feeling inside which is still in and not getting out its so suffering 😢

We’re love eachother but I left my hometown, family and life for love. Even though my kids are grown I’m against my values. He has younger kids and can’t move for me. I’m choosing to leave but the guilt and pain is hard.

I’m scared to break up!!! With him

Just not interested anymore and not much in common trying to break away from this person looking to meet other people who i have something in common with

Thank you for these words

For me the fundamental point is her ex, which is still in the background . I loved her more than anything else but Today at the dawn of the sun i will respectfully breakup with her. It’s necessary for my mental peace.

this video helped me put things in perspective but it just still feels so hard to just do. we are engaged, she lives with me, weve been together for like 5 years, she was there for me when my parents died, we own 2 dogs together, and there are alot of good times together but alot of things just arent changing that need to change. Ive broken up with 3 other gfs before, 1 was an absolute train wreck and really pulled my heart strings and I hated it, 1 was while I was away in the army but I wanted that relationship to end so it made it easier that she broke up with me, and another was initiated by me but the feeling was mutual so it was a clean break. This one i am dreading having to deal with. My family wants it to happen, my therapist thinks it will be best, but I just cant bring myself to end this one even though I know it needs to end.. Idk why Im stuggling so hard with this one when alot of the reasons would be obvious to a normal person: alcohol abuse with a relapse, no job for over a year, not taking care of themself physically, and arguments almost every other night that last all night long. this shouldnt be so hard but it is...

Thank you.

Geeat advice

Back here again i dont want you tracking my phone idfwu you like that and i want this to be over i dont want to be in this anymore everything i do they do they are disrespectful i need to leave and be free the world has much more to offer and i would like him to leave stop tracking me wasting my time holding me back i am meant for more and i dont need advice from someone who doesny want me to succeed

He seems to be under some illusions that we are a thing when we are not and i dont want to anymore that means no tracking my where abouts because i want to detach from you completely

I feel so weak needing these kind of videos.

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Thank you so much

I did all the things you say not to do.😢 how do I get through this? We work in the same place.

That was perfect advice

I was hesitant watching a nine-year-old video, but this is exactly what I needed to hear. Very very good advice. Thank you.

I was broken up with and was the one who unconsciously tugged at his heart strings and now I find myself wanting to break up with them... 😮‍💨 But I'm afraid I'll later on regret it. I hate the constant limbo we've been in for years now.

Thank you, Matthew :)

I wish I could talk to him 😢 I need some help so bad

what a beg.

My reason: Because I don’t want to do it anymore. Simple as that.

It hurts so much, especially when you share a living space and being extremely codependent is the reason why you are breaking up with someone
They are just always there. Having the same friends, going to the same places and wanting you back. Making me doubt myself so much because i dont know if im making the right decision. I am not happy with him, and i dont even really like him anymore, but i have no "compelling reason" to break up. I just cant love him anymore and im so tired

Right person, Wrong Time.

Thanks for this!

KOIFISH is leaving his girlfriend because of this video, BIG W. HES WINNING WITH ME :))))))))))

This was the most helpful video for me , thank you

It is hard.

I can't believe im here again but I keep fucking up EVERY relationship im ever in. Every SINGLE one. Now im in a position of having to end things without someone I adore simply because I know im not good for her. I couldn't give her the security she needed and I was never really that authentic around her or her people, only because I don't believe the person I ACTUALLY am is worth very much at all! What's WORSE is that she lives around the corner so im likely going to see her all the time and likely with someone new. 

Can't stop crying but that's how it is. I don't know anyone is going to read this comment but I hope anyone who does has all the love they can get in their life.

fundamental reason - good tip

Thank you!

Good stuff

Just broke up with someone. I am filled with guilt at the moment. I feel I was honest and straight to the point. She was angry and in the most polite way kicked me out of her house. I am rarely on this side of the conversation. I know it was the best thing to do. Right now I feel low. I know it will pass.

I remember watching this in tears around 3 years ago and it absolutely saved me. Thank you for breaking it down the way you did 💖

I will never return to you, you lost respect and you lost trust. I do not respect and trust you, and that is the end of your story in my life.

I need to breakup up with my bf I’m not happy anymore. I’m tired of his laziness and alcoholism. All he wants to do is play video games and not help with anything around the house , he’s also missed works and jumps from job to job . We moved here for a better life and he wanted a change away from his loser friends but it’s back to the same bs ! I’m overwhelmed and I want to pack up and leave and ghost him but I know that’s not the right thing to do. He has nowhere to go and the cars are under my name so a my apt. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you !

I (29m) just finished writing the breakup speech I will be saying to my girlfriend (24f) this weekend. Pasting below in case it can help guide others that know they need to do this - I tried to keep it concise and kind, made sure not to give too many reasons. I’m pretty certain she will laugh in my face and storm off right after she realizes I’m leaving her though so not sure I’ll get to say it all… but trying to stay ready and accepting of any reaction. It’s gonna be tough regardless.

“I need to be totally honest with you right now….

We’ve both known from the beginning that we have some fundamental differences which I think we’ve each had to work through ever since.

But it’s become more apparent to me over time that they’re real incompatibilities. My happiness with you has faded in the past couple months.

I also feel that at least at this time in your life, you’re incapable of treating me with the type of respect I need from a significant other.

I’m really very sorry but those are the main reasons this relationship just isn’t working for me and I need us to go our separate ways.

Doing this to you also hurts me in this moment but I believe this is the right thing for both of us. When you decide you want to, I have no doubt you will find a man who is a much better match for you. I truly wish you the best.”

"I'M LEAVING YOU, YOU COW!"

Fear and panic are exactly why I stayed for as long as I did, but it’s to the point to where I just want someone to love and care for me in a way that’s straightforward and easy.

Thank you. Good stuff