Adamus - The Four "S's" of Forgiveness - Separation, Sin, Selfishness, Stupid

SELF LOVE
The first friendship has to be with oneself, but very rarely will you find a person who is friendly toward himself or herself. We are enemies to ourselves, while hoping in vain that we can be friends to someone else.

We have been taught to condemn ourselves. Self-love has been thought of as a sin. It is not. It is the foundation of all other loves. It is only through self-love that altruistic love is possible. Because self-love has been condemned, all other possibilities of love have disappeared from the earth. This has been a very cunning strategy to destroy love. It is as if you were to say to a tree, "Don't nourish yourself through the earth; that is sin. Don't nourish yourself from the moon and the sun and the stars; that is selfishness. Be altruistic serve other trees." It looks logical, and that is the danger. It looks logical: If you want to serve others, then sacrifice; service means sacrifice. But if a tree sacrifices, it will die, it will not be able to serve any other tree; it will not be able to exist at all.

You have been taught, "Don't love yourself."That almost has been the universal message of the so-called organized religions. Not of Jesus, but certainly of Christianity; not of Buddha but of Buddhism--of all organized religions, that has been the teaching: Condemn yourself, you are a sinner, you are worthless. And because of this condemnation the tree of the human being has shrunk, has lost luster, can no longer rejoice. People are dragging themselves along somehow. People don't have any roots in existence, they are uprooted. They are trying to be of service to others and they cannot, because they have not even been friendly to themselves.

osho

LOVING YOURSELF

We always think in terms of loving somebody else. The man thinks to love the woman, the woman thinks to love the man; the mother thinks to love the child, the child thinks to love the mother; friends think to love each other. But unless you love yourself it is impossible to love anybody else.

You can love somebody else only when you have love within you, You can share something only when you have it. But the whole humanity has lived under this wrong ideology, so we take it for granted-as if we already love ourselves and now the whole question is of how to love our neighbor. It is impossible! That's why there is so much talk about love, and the world remains ugly and full of hatred, war and violence and anger.

It is a great insight to come to--that you don't love (yourself). It is really hard to love oneself, because we have been taught to condemn ourselves and not to love. We have been taught that we are sinners. We have been taught that we are not of any worth. Because of that it has become difficult to love. How can you love a worthless person? How can you love somebody who is already condemned?

But it will come. If the insight that you do not love yourself has come, there is nothing to be worried about. One window has opened. You will not be inside the room for long-you will jump out. Once you know the open sky, you cannot remain confined in a stale world. You will come out of it.

osho

Beseda "narcizem" v samostalniškl obliki namreč označuje stanje, razvojno stopnjo, značajsko potezo, ali bolezen. Zato je beseda še najbolj natančna kot pridevnik ali prislov, tako da lahko z dopolnili kolikor toliko natančno določimo, na kaj
mislimo. Poleg številnih pomenov, ki jih beseda že označuje v strokovni literaturi, dobi v vsakdanjem govoru še dodatno čustveno obarvanost. Tako pomeni npr.: "vase zaljubljen", "vedno zaposlen s seboj", "egocentričen". Celo psihoanalitiki se ne znajo vedno izogniti negativnemu čustvenemu vrednotenju, čeprav si prizadevajo, da bi beseda "narcizem" zvenela nevtralno.

Toda ostanimo nekaj časa pri negativnem vrednotenju. Kaj je pravzaprav egoizem? Petnajstletni gimnazijec Freud je zapisal v svoj zvezek z aforizmi, daje največji egoist tisti človek, ki mu še nikoli ni prišlo na misel, da je egoist. Veliko ljudi te
modrosti petnajstletnega Freuda ne doseže niti v pozni starosti in zares mislijo, da nimajo svojih potreb, a samo zato, ker jih ne poznajo.

Naše zaničevanje "egoista" se pojavi že zelo zgodaj. Otrok, ki izpolnjuje zavestne ali nezavedne želje staršev, je "priden" otrok. Če pa tak noče vedno biti in ima svoje želje, ki so v nasprotju z željami staršev, ga označijo za egoističnega in brezobzirnega. Starši večinoma ne pomislijo, da potrebujejo otroka zato, da izpolnjuje njihove (egoistične) želje, ampak
so trdno prepričani, da ga morajo vzgojiti, ker je njihova dolžnost, da mu pomagajo pri "socializaciji". Če tako vzgojen otrok noče izgubiti starševske ljubezni (in kateri otrok lahko tvega kaj takega?), se bo zelo zgodaj naučil "deliti", "dajati", "žrtvovati" in "se odpovedovati", veliko prej, preden je iskrena delitev ali pravo odpovedovanje sploh mogoče. Otrok, ki ga je mati dojila devet mesecev, sam noče več piti iz prsi in ga ni treba šele vzgojiti, da se prsim "odpove". Otrok, ki je smel biti dovolj dolgo
"egoističen", "pohlepen", "asocialen", sam nekoč začuti spontano veselje do tega, da deli in daje.

Otrok, ki je bil "vzgojen" za potrebe staršev, tega veselja mogoče nikoli ne doživi, čeprav zavedajoč se dolžnosti deli in daje, pri tem pa trpi, ker drugi niso tako "dobri", kakor je sam. Tako vzgojeni odrasli bodo skušali ta "altruizem" čim hitreje "vbiti v glavo" tudi svojim otrokom in pri nadarjenih otrocih je to zelo lahko. Ampak za kakšno ceno! Beseda "egoizem" pa nenadoma ni več tako jasna, če si jo natančneje ogledamo. Podobno je s "spoštovanjem do drugih", ki ga večkrat odrekamo ljudem, "zaverovanim vase". Če mati od prvega dneva otrokovega življenja spoštuje sebe in svojega otroka, ji nikoli ni treba otroku "spoštovanja vbijati v glavo", saj sploh ne bo mogel drugače, kot da bo resno upošteval druge ljudi. Če pa neke matere njena mati nekoč ni upoštevala takšne, kot je bila, si bo skušala spoštovanje pridobiti s pomočjo vzgoje. V tej knjigi opisujem tragične usode taksnega "spoštovanja".

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I am teaching you to be selfish.

Let me repeat it, because the word "selfishness" has been condemned so much that there is every possibility you will misunderstand me. But the word is really beautiful.

To be selfish simply means to be yourself.

I say to you: don't consider anybody else in the world, just consider yourself; and in that very consideration you will have considered the whole world. In being selfish you will find all the altruism that you have been seeking and seeking and not finding, because the whole thing was upside down.

You are told to love your neighbor -- but you have never loved yourself. And a person who has not loved himself, how can he love the neighbor? From where can he get love? First you have to have it. You are loving the neighbor -- you who knows nothing of love because you have never loved yourself. The neighbor is loving you -- he has never loved himself. Such insanity is happening in the world: people who know nothing of love are loving each other.

It is like beggars begging from each other, each thinking the other is the emperor. Both are thinking in the same way: the other is the emperor. Both are beggars. Sooner or later the reality manifests itself; then there is misery, suffering. Then you think you have been cheated, this beggar has been trying to prove himself an emperor. Now this is absolutely absurd -- it is you who were thinking him an emperor. And the same is the situation from the other side: the other person thinks you have been cheating him, pretending to be an emperor and you are just a beggar.

When both beggars find that they are beggars, what else can they do other than be angry, enraged, violent to each other, hating each other as deeply as possible? And the love ...? It was nothing; they don't know what love is.

To know anything, you have to begin with yourself.

You have been told to sacrifice yourself for some idiotic ideal.

I want you just to be simply selfish.

And you will be surprised that if you are selfish you discover so many treasures within yourself that soon you start sharing them -- because finding a treasure is a lesser joy than sharing it.

osho

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In the early period of Atlantis there wasn't anything that you would now call a name for "yourself," that came in the later days. In this more current era of humanity, starting perhaps approximately ten thousand years ago, as the human species began becoming more than these nomadic tribes that were wandering and began to settle, this is when the modern concept of God came to be. And so for the past ten thousand years or so it's been about a new understanding. Understanding that there is a type of God, a type of higher being. There was a responsibility to something else, that was the important thing. That has been the consciousness up until very, very recently.

The new consciousness right now is about the "I Am." And while to some it might sound very selfish, it is actually about discovering yourself. It is about putting yourself first, loving yourself first, taking care of yourself first, having compassion for yourself first, and knowing yourself first. Because as you do this, then and truly then you are able to help humans but, you understand, only humans who are choosing help. As you come into this era of I Am, it is also discovering that this God that humans have been seeking for the past ten thousand years doesn't exist up in heaven somewhere, isn't hidden somewhere, it is right here. It has always been there. That is what this new consciousness is all about.

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GUILT (SINNERS ARE SUCKERS!)

Guilt is part if the egoistic mind; it is not spiritual. Religions have been exploiting it, but it has nothing to do with spirituality. Guilt simply tells you that you could have done otherwise. It is an ego feeling; as if you were not helpless, as if everything were in your hands.

Nothing is in your hands. You yourself are not in your hands. Things are happening; nothing is being done. Once you understand this, guilt disappears. Sometimes you can cry and weep for something, but deep down you know it had to happen, because you are helpless, a part of such a great totality--and you are such a tiny part. It is like when there is a leaf on a tree and a strong wind comes and the leaf is separated from the tree. Now the leaf thinks a thousand and one things--that it could have been that way and not this way; that this separation could have been avoided. What could the leaf do? The wind was too strong.

Guilt goes on giving you the wrong notion that you are powerful, that you are capable of doing everything. Guilt is the shadow of the ego: You could not change the situation, and now you are feeling guilty about it. If you look deep into it, you will see that you were helpless, and the whole experience will help you become less egoistic.

If you go on watching the shape things take, the forms that arise, and the happenings that happen, by and by you drop your ego. Love happens--separation too. We cannot do anything about it. This is what I call a spiritual attitude: when you understand that nothing can be done; when you understand that you are just a tiny part of such a tremendous vastness.

osho

thank you Adamus, thank you.
i know you are of me, but please please stay with us in this human connection and let me receive you through these wonderful videos anytime i want to ... ooo im so greatfull that i found you in this time of machine... stay with me in the machine! lots of love and thanks ✨💜

OH GEE!!! I finally got why you say: ”it was not me”. It only took me 85 days!! Thank God, linear time and space are no longer factors!!! 😜🤣

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