Why Can't I Love My WIfe? | Nouman Ali Khan

And when u r alone in home whole day and ur husband comes home with very ignorant face what would you expect. Why always lecturing women

The husband should also smile to wife to expect same reply. Tech by being an example too. The men should be reminded to lower their gaze, either by wife or others friends or imams, same as women also should be reminded to lower their gaze. It's a wife's right to lecture the husband in a good way. Don't make it seem men can just look without being warned. That's why the height and Surats are there. They should be open for advice & critics & respond positively, same as they expect their wife's to listen to them. Respect and value and listen to each other. We are all humans. And Allah will judge all same and best is only the one with more Takwa not the gender. Thanks

and the women who work?? or the house wives who attend to home and kids all day to the level of frustration should smile at the husband for stepping inside home after kids sleep???

This is probably just an excerpt from one of his lectures. What he says is not wrong. Of course, the same applies the other way round. A woman wants to be cared for and valued just as much, and a man's silence can become torture, precisely because she relates it to herself, even if the reason is completely different.

Respect for the other person's personality, care and, above all, trust are the basis of every happy relationship.

I gave my best but he stabbed me in my back. My kindness is misused against me.

Strange but true that sometimes such scholars go through divorce themselves 😢

Just like brother said in the video, please take the good and positive from the video.

if he doesn't care if I smile if I beautiful or well dressed.

Thankyou so much for this

the solution is womens plz don't attach emotionally with men then everything goes cool😎

What about when the wife does everything, sometimes even beyond what she would normally do, knowing how tired she is and how its effecting her, all whilst the husband comes from work and compliments other women but has never acknowledged her work for him or complimented her. Over time how can a woman still be smiling, this will just create an automatic space.

Is there any woman here who is satisfied with her husband? Or did you all marry the devil itself 😂😂

Cool video, your channel is really an inspiration. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

But for Me and my husband, this doesn’t seem to be true about the love or passion being there at the beginning of marriage. Our love has grown every day and our love is even more as 8 years passed by. Our passion, attraction to each other has also grown as time passed by. I never understood why people said at the beginning of marriage we are more attracted or loving, etc. My husband and I both feel we are more in love every day by Allah’s Rahmaah. A lot of times, We understand each other without even saying something. It’s like we just know what the other is thinking and feeling most of the time by Allah’s Will. Thankful to Allah for each other Alhamdulillah.

I came home from work, and my husband had the frown and it was awful 😭 I am still bitter about him doing that to me while I was working and pregnant

if people understand self worth aswell as they understand that they should not say that they are useless because that is just dark... because you are not calling yourself useless but you instead are calling the creation of Allah useless (Allah is perfect, his creations are undeniably perfect, he (S.T) does not make mistakes), have some hold and value of urself... look onto how much you mean to everyone about everything... try to be someone who just does not expects anything instead he/she should be the one doing something that is unexpected and beautiful for the others, and literally literally all it takes is one step and one sacrifice and one spark.. and then just see how how a ray of light will enter your life like a flower blossoming into the sun for the first time <3...

Why do Muslim men have this problem? Not all men have this problem. Muslim women have a point - why can't the men "lower their gaze"?

Am i the only one who doesn't like this particular one. Wrong on many levels. It's all about the men

This advice doesn't work when so many men are watching porn on their phones. They're pornsick. Women can't be made to suffer men in current times. Ladies, don't marry these pornsick creeps. 4B now.

why people spend so much on couple's therapy wallahi this is GOLD

When U say take care what u realy trying to say ?jigijigi?

I understand the concept of silence so as not to escalate an argument, but communication is important. Stonewalling till the wife thinks it's her fault? This feels like it wouldn't be good for the relationship in the long term.

Not in arrange marriages. You have to force yourself in everything u need to do. Its mentally draining. Women are very hard to put up with not men😂😂😂😂😂 this guy!!!!

I have to disagree! If a man is close to his creator he will automatically lower his gaze!! I have seen many men lower their gaze and you can tell their Imaan is very high! You are a weak man who is unable to lower his gaze because you choose not to be close Allah! It's an option! Similarly when women don't get the love they require at home and go to search for it off the streets! Again that's a choice she made! She could of had saber and increased her closeness with Allah instead! Let's stop making excuses for greasy a** men who can't lower their gaze out of choice!!!

This guy is a simp

I have done everything right, I never talked back or have shown anger towards my husband but he has been cruel to me as soon as we signed the marriage documents. Nearly 5 years now and he has left me living with my family and has never spent a penny on me or even taken me out for a coffee.

Familyyyyy, Y, soo mised Spouse young women young madEm young wifE on Earthearthearth MAN Familyyyyyy Systems SENERATIONSSS

Quality Real ValuE right , Familyyyyyy Respect

Haha n what if wife smile m husnand ask the reason for the smile😂

Marriage is not a competition. It's a relationship! A team effort, there's no he or she contributes more. Rather, they both complement by investing their own knowledge, strengths, and responsibilities that were assigned to them by Allāh and his Nabi Sallalāllhu Alyhe Wa Sallam, and not those by society and family.

The purpose of marriage is to help us to facilitate the pleasure of Allāh and his Nabi Sallalāllhu Alyhe Wa Sallam more smoothly, efficiently, and proactively provided we follow the guidelines given to us in the Qur’ān & Sunnah.

The longevity of the marriage is contingent on the above-mentioned points, and most of all, our level of Taqwā (God awareness).

What if husband doesn’t give the wife her just rights. Like he spends on a cousin more than his wife. If the wife tries to tell him that this isn’t right he still continues to do so secretly

It goes both ways I think my love doesn't love me anymore even though it has been one month since we got married. I had to go overseas for work and she used to text me, leave a voicemail asked about how was my day and if I eat anything for first week but she doesn't check on me anymore like before and doesn't even react on my social media photos. I love her so much I have always reacted to her pictures by saying mashallah, beautiful and so on. Now I'm starting to lose feeling for her as well because I know my guts are telling me she got no respect, love, feelings for me as well. May Allah help me in this critical situation, Amen. Does anybody know why my wife's behavior has changed all of the sudden ?

What keeps marriage alive?
Love
And when not
Divorce

Because you are infatuated with madhuri dexit!! And it’s a lot of other staff comes into play. Take a break and find out …….

What hadith talks about treating wives or women with silence? I see patience but couldn't find silence

Say ALHAMDULILLAH

Masha'Allah, this is so profound wallahi that's Allah s'w'a decreed that marriage complete help of Ibadah.

i have give up to watch such videos where their is a discussion on healthy and attractive and happy married life because Both partners should learn how to keep the married life happy and peaceful,, Such videos only increase my frustration and stress level

MashAllah

La ilaha illallah
Subhanallah 💕💕💕
Alhamdulillah 💕💕💕
Allah hu Akbar 💕💕💕

زين للناس وليس زين للرجال. هناك فرق.

Really Nauman! This is ur best advice and reason to women and wives? By enabling the Muslim husband.
Sorry too lame.
U make it sound like the fault of the wife. Please don’t insult the integrity of wife.
Most Muslim men don’t even pay
Meher before consummation.

Subhan Allah - we managed to come up with arguments and negative comments on this too. The very thing hes talking about in the video. May Allab have mercy on us all.

I'm tired of trying to make mine a happy one.

reading these comments i don't feel sad about being single anymore 😂

My parents were married over 60 years, and to the last day of my mother's life, he was looking after her and speaking to her with kindness

What if the wife works and comes home to a stay home husband?

The man is “building resentment” because he is a coward. Y does he not mention to his wife what he would like from her? He could try saying “hey, it would mean a lot to me if you did this or that”.
There is no excuse for resentment to build because of expectations that the husband had, meanwhile the wife was not aware of it.
‏لا حول ولا قوة الا بالله

Thank you. Nice advice. I practice it. Eventhou my husband don't want to touch me ( because i am getting bigger cause my asthma medicine), he still do not want to leave me or get another wife. In Indonesia, polygamy need court decision to acknowledge by law. Alhamdulillah.

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