Gay Dating App Story: The Pretentious Wasp

Omg . all jobs are important. Someone showing me a nice night in a restaurant is far more vital to society than corporate office minions. So pissed about that comment . I would have walked out on him

I once had someone tell me (not a date) that their family came over on the Mayflower and I wanted to turn to her and say, “Who gives a shit?”

Hello Keven. I am new to your channel. I subscribed recently. You just came up in my feed on You Tube. I have been watching your videos and not saying anything. I am so sorry to hear of your challenges in dating. You have a warm open personality. I think that is great. You think about others as well. This situation got really interesting in a bad way it seems. You think long term like I do. I just wanted to say hello and tell you that you are quite handsome as well. You keep doing your videos and sharing. Please take care.

I got this bit of wisdom from a movie I've forgotten, but I think it is true: We don't date to find The One, but to find out what we need from just one.

Relationships, it seems to me, are an alignment of values more than anything. That seems to have been the issue. There might have been attractions (e.g , physical, intellectual, etc.) that disappear when values misalign.

I see your profiles on Grindr & Jack'd when I use the explore features to see guys in different areas and your pics are wholesome and aren't sexual at all. Your date was being uptight!

I think you should go back and say Hi to the barman!

Kevin sounds like this guy is a totally looser not for you my freind you deserve much better than him !!!

I like your little shirt with the hoody 🙂

So basically you went on a date with a loser - Seriously I would like to know his real origin because this doesn't sound like someone who has any dating experience nor blue blood (which I don't know why that's still a thing)

Interesting date. Many years ago I was meeting up with a guy. When we met, we both detected that it wasn't going to lead to anything, so we treated one another with respect. Had a nice lunch and parted ways. Taking chances is always ok, just as long as you stay true to yourself and your boundaries.

Sounds like your nightmare date needs a good friend to tell him how his personality sometimes can off as offensive. Another learning experience for you.😊 👍

This actually resonated with me because I am in between jobs. I’ve lived in Seattle my entire life & looking at the East Coast exclusively (with preference to New England states). I’ve went from structured-routine 9-5 office life to infinitely more free time. While I’ve been applying, I’ve noticed that I’m more glued on the apps which I never use to be so fixated on. Anyways, I think how someone talks about/ treats people in the service industry is a huge testament to their character & the irony is not lost on me that they are unemployed speaking about someone who is working an honest living.

Yikes. Sounds like a waste of time. I’d be wanting to bail immediately.

Definitely not your type!!!😮😂

What make me laugh about your videos is thinking about my own situation.I did not come out till I was 30 (Very Catholic) Played around for 8 years never thinking of a relationship.Went to a gay bar one night and got really loaded.I am 5’6 and was always never more than a 6 in the looks dept.A gorgeous Latino guy walked in the bar and I almost fell off my bar stool.I went right up to him and told him he was gorgeous.We made out and went home together.We did not see each other for 5 months after that night.We met again and are now together for 13 years.Sometimes I think killer good looks can actually be a burden!I hope Cupid finds you in 2024 Keven!😘Ryan

Yayy we got to see the profile, I've been curious about that becasue it's relevant to the stories you tell!

Jheeze this guy sounds like a mess! Honestly those guys can really just kill a personality like yours if they get a hold of you.

It's funny, the way you describe it, it's like he tries to lower others for him to look like he's more important and that he has more value than a simple bartender. I remember when I was young and pretty and going out in bars, it did happen maybe twice, where I went back home with the bartender (of course I had to meet them many times at the bar before it comes to that) and they were nice and educated people and fun to be with (they're very sociable). I think that people that are like that, trying to lower people to make themself look like they're important and on top of that showing jealousy on the first date is a big flag that their self esteem and level of self confidence is very low. Personnally I'm not really attracted by that because it could be the kind of person that doesn't want you to see your friends because of his insecurity. It sounds like if it had continued you would have ended up miserable in this kind of relationship. I think it's best to just let him know that you're not compatible and it won't work and move on. 😉

Just take it all the way and call it a day...

I’m Cosa Nostra blue blood. Grandpa was a hitman/Capo/racketeer and his cousin was a crime boss. I call him “Uncle Angelo.” I want Keanu Reeves to play Grandpa in the movie. I think he’d do it. :-)

Keven, you just had a bad date. There are so many boys are there. Keep up the pursuit.

PS. He’s needs to get that cough check. It really could be something serious.🤔

Hello Kevin, after watching your video, I am very sorry that would happen during your date that sucked with the guy that you met. For me I wish I can have my first date and see where it goes, and, of course, never to kiss on the first day 😅. And also very nice vans hoodie, and hopefully you find a nice guy that’s not like this one and also that works.

Kevin I just subscribe to your channel and I live in New York City and I’m turning 35 years old in two months on April 18th. And I work as A salesman in A family shoe store for 8 years now.

Have a great night Kevin and your eyes I love the color 🙂

You seem really comfortable with yourself and that’s refreshing to see. That guy let you read him like a book too. Only possible when you’ve been around the block yourself. Love the point about not feeling like you NEED the date. A lot of people out here date to fill a void like you said, and when they havnt done the work themselves. Focusing on yourself Helps likeminded people notice you but it also makes people try to bring you down to their level

😁 Very entertaining! "They tend to be more, dare I say, corporate in their personalities" was the most tactful throw of shade I've encountered. Thanks for the LOL. For, the record, not all finance guys fit that mould, thank goodness!
PS: Love the lamp! 👌

Guys who are take charge are nice but finding someone who knows the time and place and doesn't have a ego to go with it are extremely rare sadly. I'm sorry you had to deal with that awkward situation, Love your stories though! Keep at it and i'm sure you'll find a happy match eventually

The cough 😷 is hilarious. Did he acknowledge it?

Here are my thoughts: If YOU asked them out, then YOU pay the entire bill. (In this case I don't know who did the asking, so I'm just stating an opinion) AND in this scenario he should've paid since he went on his rant about "taking care" of someone. Also, sometimes when people are nervous they say and do things that are not necessarily them. Perhaps he genuinely REALLY liked you and he was trying to impress you somehow? I am glad though that you stuck to your instincts as they are always right. Just wanted to give you a different perspective. Lastly, I don't understand why people make it an issue when someone is between jobs. Who cares? It happens. People get laid off. And maybe he's comfortable enough not to need a job right away?

Did you tell him eventually that you are not interested? If so, was it by text or an actual phone call? Just curious.

Yea you complaining about all the guys you encounter..but at the same time saying you can't get a date

Grinder is for kiddies

How much older than you was this guy? He sounds like a simple snobby guy. You get that from time to time. It may be he is not comfortable with his own sexuality.