"Be Do Have" Talk - Ben Stein - Purpose Up

Focusing on who you are being today, rather than your to do list can be a very effective way to shift out of a funk.

That’s why I am sharing a talk I gave to my business networking group about the concept Be Do Have. (pre-social distancing)

Most of us are either in one of the two paradigms.

Have Do Be
A victim mentality, where we never HAVE what we need (enough money, time or resources) to DO what we want to do, so we can never BE Satisfied, fulfilled successful etc…

Do Have Be
Focusing on all of the doing - an endless cycle of Doing more to Have more, as we think it will make us Be happy.

Vs.

Be Do Have
Here we start the day asking ourselves, Who do I get to Be today? And what would that person do in order to have the results they wanted.

Today I get to be compassionate. I get to allow myself some space to feel the collective sadness / grief.

I get to be powerful, and share important ideas that can help folks who are struggling, instead of me not showing up.

I get to be consistent, and keep showing up every day.

Even going through that exercise I have had a shift on how I feel, write and think. It’s that powerful.

Who do you get to be today?

#coaching #purposeup

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