4 Habits of ALL Successful Relationships | Dr. Andrea & Jonathan Taylor-Cummings | TEDxSquareMile

You should also mention the trauma kids experience when two people stay in a bad relationship

Beautiful and well stated!!!!

Relationships are like fragile flowers. They need to be cared for with love and dedication

Yes it’s a 16+ minute video. I get there are many reasons why someone just wants to know the four habits and just be on their way to utilize them the way they were intended. I hope they bring them to their partner the way they were intended. I hope the partner understands and also uses them as intended. We’re all walking around with our own views/takes. But I think the in-depth explanations of them helps get everyone on the same page. IMO

However -- it takes TWO. One person practicing these principles and being chronically ignored doesn't have anything to build on.

Incredible! All relationships would benefit from following these 4 habits!! Life changing information.

Lovely video, needed this..really love my gf I want to marry her n have family with her…currently on a break doing working on ourselves I needed this thank you

Implementing these habits is easier when you're emotionally intelligent. Some people are emotion avoiders who need to connect with themselves first.

+FACTS OVA FEELINGS). The Worst Habit tha Men have in Romantic Relationship is tha They Become One Man During the Hunting Phase of Pursuing a Relationship and then Switch to a Whole Other Man wen tha Hunting Phase is Over and They have Actually Achieved that relationship

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

Such great insights. Thank you both. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

I have been blessed with so many good relationships in my life. I have let go of and I'm healing from the abusive ones because of therapy and my support system. When it comes to people who give you destructive criticism and emotionally mentally abuse you really, you have to remember they are not doing it because they care and are trying to change you it's because they want to hurt you because they believe your doing wrong. That is absolutely not true. You do the best you can and even if you mess up your supports should be people who give you constructive criticism and encourage you to do better because they care. You deserve respect because you have good things about yourself. You just gotta let go of those spouses friends whoever it is and do it safely and get help moving forward like a therapist and surround yourself with good people who love you, care about you,respect you, help, and support you in living a good life.

Hi, it's me, I'm a former Rachel. 😭

Definitely needed to hear this. Agree with having strong successful relationships to build strong families leading to stronger communities. That is needed Worldwide

Using this

Never thought I’d hear a TedTalk that would hit my soul… Thank you.

We have communication issues. I’m super quiet with a quiet mind not a thinker where as my husband thinks all conversations should be about our future and he always thinks non stop and doesn’t get how I can’t think of anything to talk about cuz I don’t stew in thoughts.

I’m very even tempered which makes him think I have no emotions. I feel like he tries to start arguments just to see if he can upset me. And if I respond I feel like he thinks it’s a fight. And he doesn’t want me to talk just listen to him “vent”.
It’s called communicating 😢

Thank you for this. 🙏🏻

Wow! Great talk! 🤩

Good video. I'm middle age and still have relationship/ bonding issues. I'm an introvert, so when in group gathering I have trouble connecting

‘People go where they feel welcome but stay where they feel valued.’ That says it all.

Thank you 🙏🏼 very valuable 🌹⭐️💗

This is beautiful and thoughtful

I appreciate every single one of the last 16 minutes and 42 seconds spent on my smartphone

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How do I convince my partner to listen to messages like this?

Thanks for this great talk. I added the 4 reminders on my phone. it's very important especially with our children ❤

I cannot believe these guys got a TED talk. This is anything but ground breaking. Anyone with half a brain can research these numbers. Underwhelming to say the least.

This is a really good Ted Talk.

Recently, I found myself agonizing on how I could keep my relationship with my best friend. He was the first one to approach me back when we were strangers and opened up and the rest was history. We talked a lot, chatted, and called. The thing is though our work’s nature required us to be flexible to be reassigned on places at least once every six weeks. We were only together for 3 months before I got transferred. We still kept in touch, maybe even more so.

Fast forward to now, and I find myself insecure in our friendship as circumstances arose. Just had a fight a week ago (Right after christmas! Ikr?) and I started it because I felt like he kept dismissing me when in fact I just miss him dearly. Maybe I was bordering on codependency or have an anxious attachment style but he’s known me as an overthinker as I do know him as well.

These habits hopefully would make me a better friend to such an incredible guy.

I know you won’t see this bro but I love you. You’re a brother to me.

I pray my girlfriend and I make it through 🙏🏽🙏🏽 we are expecting twins but she is breaking up with me due to old habits I have. I am continuously working on them and in the time we have been separated I feel like I am getting better but she just isn't having it 😢 I can't lose her. I'd give anything to make this work🙏🏽

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This content is a beacon of knowledge and understanding. Reading a book with akin themes was an enriching experience. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

Nice!

Reminder me one I marry 🎯☺️

Thank you ❤

Who’s is watching this 2023?😅

Wish you all the best in the future 😊

I’m a little confused. I’m not saying I now best, however you would think if a relationship is toxic and not good then it would be best to leave instead of having your child see you guys arguing all the time? Would these not cause more mental issues with the children then splitting up?

(FACTS OVA FEELINGS). Many Peephole Falsely Be-lie-ve in Order to Have a Relationship They Must Comply to the Other Person and to have a Sense of Self They Must Rebel Against the Other Person

Highly appreciated ❤

+1 for humorous therapists

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Such a perfect couple. I am In awe. Very inspirational.

"You dont understand me" - my gf said before leaving. I convinced her to give one last try. Was looking for solutions and found this couple questions game "Lovify". In this game you have to guess what your partner expects or likes. I got to know a lot about her :)

Thanks. Appreciate hearing this. I'm on it.

im sorry but his voice sounds like stewy from family guy 😭😭😭😭😭

The current state of relationships in this country is horrible. I have no desire to kick it with no man. The way people have pursued me in secret and introduced men who dont have a clue about what positivity is into my life has made the idea of a relationship nonexistent...people are too creepy nowadays. Too controlling....too cra-cra.