Be Stylish Without Looking Like You're Trying Too Hard

Good job, Kay! I have been replacing a lot of my clothes with natural fiber (mostly linen and silk) this spring and summer. You are right, natural fibers are not only more comfortable, they look more effortlessly chic. The price is that more work to wash them carefully, steam them, and iron them. I am getting used to the extra work and even like steaming.... But I agree it will be hard to only have natural fiber clothes, especially pants and skirts. Linen are super easy to get too wrinkly. Satin made with silk has a shine to it and can look too delicate for casual wear. They have limitations. Natural fiber blend fabric for skirts or pants still have the natural fiber feel, but a lot easier to care and maintain the shape throughout the day. I am willing to put some effort into looking effortlessly stylish, but not too much efforts.

Love the video. Pink is my favorite color. I always try to look interesting, even if I am wearing casual clothes. Thanks for the tips.

When I click on lipstick the earrings come up do tell the info on lipstick thanks

Please share your wedding look with us. Congratulations to your daughter.

Great tips!

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Super guidelines! Thank you so much as very helpful. Also, extending wishes to the new Bride for a life time of happiness.

I love matchy matchy. In fact, I usually shop from the same store from top to bottom so I can match them all. To me, that is put together. When I buy an outfit, I match it to specific jewelry, shoes, and handbags, and I prefer more put together than effortlessly chic. Thanks for the tips. The video was informative.

You hit my personal style SPOT ON with this one, Kay! This has to be my favorite video of yours right now; I love it!! 🥰
Ps) In common with you….my daughter gets married in just 4 short months…(my first born)… I just finalized my “subdued” yet elegant accessories for my dress today! 🥰

Great video...very helpful info. Thank you

This is you at your best! You are truly a “Summer” and this video shows why choosing the perfect color for your skin tone works. We are all noticing you and not your clothes. This pink, ivory and light blue all make you look so young and pretty! Great job!

I love all the looks! Your hair looks wedding ready! You will have to share how you do your bangs to get them to lay so nice! 😉

Great tips on the video! What I really loved was the tip to look 'undone'. Whenever I see a stylish woman she usually has some part of her that is undone. It seems edgy and chic. Now, thanks to you, I know how to be undone! Love it!!

Such great tips, Kay. Thank you!

Great tips, Kay! I'm looking forward to the next part.

What do have in ideas on LEGS for women over 50 , 60 especially when we wear dresses ? I do not think ANYONE aught to wear shorts over 50 —knees , ankles 😢😢NO NO

Thank you Kay, I love this video with all your tips!!

Excellent video. I do try and dress in the way you describe but I never really articulated it. I think it's more youthful, easy and modern. You've got me thinking now about it and I realise it's a great way to dress, for all ages. Looking forward to your next video.

Excellent video in every way! ❤️

Congratulations to the happy couple 💐

Okay you look amazing! You had me at graphic tees! I love the Georgia Peaches shirt!

Hi Kay, thanks for a thought provoking video. I'd like to add that I've learned to know and accept my personal style. I tend to go for a classic pulled together look but I've seen ladies with an exuberant eccletic style sense that is just gorgeous on them. I , however, could never pull it off. Style is so subjective and individualistic. Knowing yourself definitely helps because you won't dress inauthentically.

Please repost the product you use to plump up the lips. I missed the link and researched, but couldn't come up with the product. Thanks.

This was really good and so helpful. What I like to do is never decide what I am going to wear in the morning. I am not a morning person and am bound to get it wrong. So I pull out the clothes I want to wear the night before and hang them on the bedroom door and put out shoes, jewellery and pack my handbag. This means I don’t have to think about it in the morning and also presents a good opportunity to check for things like creases, hanging cottons or dirt on shoes that I may have missed before.

I think it looks very ordinary , nothing stylish in it, most women around dress like that , very middle age, middle class mediocre

Great tips 😊

Practical, easy to follow tips!

Thank you for these tips on effortless dressing, they were very helpful. Congratulations on your daughter's wedding, enjoy the weekend.

This was very informative! You are such a gracious woman. I’m interested in wearing earrings , but I wear eyeglasses and feel like I have too much going on with my curls and earrings - and I’m a very simple and relaxed. I love earthy natural. Could you address that please. tIA

I found your channel today and subscribed. Helpful video, thank you! BTW, I am 58.

Thank you for showing some styles without a jacket. Most of the time wearing a jacket is too hot, especially indoors. I thinks jackets do make an outfit, but they are impractical unless it’s fall or spring and you are outdoors.

Watched this video again. Love my cashmere zipped hoodie that I bought secondhand

Sorry but i have not enjoyed this n not even half way through it yet

Hi Kay, someone else may have already told you this but you look stunning in that vibrant pink blouse!! You are rocking it! Lol!
Thanks for all the videos and I thoroughly enjoy all your tips and advice!
Cindy

Cute, spring fashions. I especially like the short blazers with jeans. In a world gone "grunge" it is great to see a woman who cares about her appearance.!

Great tips!! You look fantastic in the hot pink blouse. Silly question, but have you always had bangs? Something looks different about your hair. Love it

Over explains, talk less

Thank you!

This is soooo helpful.

I love her accent! Is she from Texas?

You look best in dresses and shorts.

....This was a really great Video....
I was curious as to there not being the * List * , as you discussed each of the points you were speaking of. ( it's nice to see those on screen, a few at a time onscreen. ) Or...a " Cheat Sheet "... 🙂😊
I don't care for the look of trainers ( sneakers ) with dresses etc... I think it looks odd, unless it's a denim dress or skirt that doesn't look odd with trainers.
I must say that the particular colour you have on is SO flattering and lovely on you . Definitely a colour that works for you , Miss Kay !

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Good day to you Kay and I enjoy watching your video because I'm a fashion lovers even I'm a grand mother I like to go out and wear clothes that I will look good.thankyou.

Why is effort looked down on?

I love your videos, such great advice. I find it takes me quite a lot of work trying to look effortlessly stylish! So this video is helping a lot.

Love your videos! I have watched many by others and to me yours are the best. I can tell that you have educated yourself well about the topics and done ple ty of research. Thank you. Your efforts are greatly appreciated.

Good morning. I was wondering if your four or five colors change for spring/summer then do you stay with those same colors for fall/winter along with the neutrals?

Right on 🎉😊

Being 5' 7", I am not completely comfortable wearing crop or ankle pants. They look like I have the wrong size\length on.