Modern Dating Is Impossible - Here’s The Playbook | PsycHacks' Orion Taraban

Not enough commercials on this channel. I just love products.

Willingness to sacrifice oneself in the service of others. Passion of Christ. Mother’s undying and unconditional love for her children……list goes on. What people think is love is not love. It is a projection of their pleasure from being in that particular relationship. Most people aren’t capable of love.

Too many ads brother this is unwatchable

This was a great listen 👍🏿

If the husband is going to be 95%faithful, his wife also should be able to do the same.

I’ve been investigating traditional west african family structures. I think they do a good job of balancing. They are similar to the East in that the man is allowed multiple sexual partners BUT rather than have it be clandestine it’s out in the open. However, just like the west, those multiple partners are formally and legally bonded to that man and have protected status. Good middle ground I think.

with all of the research done in this area- It shouldn’t be difficult for men to understand why women prefer partners who are resourceful and generous with said resources.

Historically, women have always sought stability, especially pregnancy and child-rearing, when they are at their most vulnerable. In modern times, this preference remains, but now women are in a stronger position to negotiate better terms for themselves and their children.

This isn’t about rejecting men or taking all their money. Studies show that women’s preference for resourceful partners is deeply rooted in evolutionary survival strategies, prioritizing long-term stability over immediate gains. Women are naturally inclined to seek men who are willing to share resources and invest in their family’s well-being, which benefits both partners and their children

When men divert resources to mistresses or other relationships outside of the primary family, it undermines the stability and well-being of the family unit. Research supports that divided resources lead to worse outcomes for children, with less financial and emotional investment available for their upbringing. This not only impacts the immediate family but also the quality of the next generation. Women, therefore, seek partners who demonstrate commitment and the consistent allocation of resources to the family, as this maximizes the potential for their children to thrive.

In modern times, this is about ensuring quality over quantity—offering children a better future, rather than spreading resources thinly across multiple relationships. Women’s approach is about maintaining stability and prosperity, which serves the entire family’s best interests.

He really took romantic devotional spiritual sacred embodied love and threw it right out the window. Fuckin weak.

Found this guy’s channel RIGHT when he started it. I knew from the get go that he is gonna go far.

I have said since the back of times during medieval times or whatever era. Women have always been having fun while their men went to hard harbour work or war etc

Killing? It’s dead.

What a sad commentary on human relationships. It sounds so transactional, devoid of love, and bitter. I think it's because people don't sufficiently know and love themselves--not narcissistically, but genuine self-love--and they look for someone to complete them instead of bringing the best part of themselves to share with someone who brings their best self to share as well. This mentality of "I'll trade my money for sex with you" and vice versa is spiritually and emotionally bankrupt. What is not discussed here is the fact that social engineering is creating circumstances that intentionally alienate people from themselves and others--reducing marriage and the population by extension--to achieve their global agenda. One can only help that humanity wakes up before it's too late.

As a 40 something year old I am so happy that dating in my early years didn't have the problem of so much social media and smart phones.. I really was able to connect more back then.. now we are in uncharted territory..Problems never experienced in human history with dating.

hey, suggestion for next show. Rather than keep referring to multimillionaire men and women. How about discussing regular folks making 80 to 100 K.

Eric-my applause to this interview!!! 👏👏👏

I really think that legalization of prostitution would maybe augment this dating issue in a positive way. I cannot see how it would make it worse. It may be changing one problem for another, however, it should be explored and at least talked about.

Speaking of LOVE:

“Love bears all things , ,believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”
Love never fails.( V8)
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (complete description of true love)

I once sincerely loved that way, but just once. You learn your lesson fast enough to put up your shields of protection the next time around…

But the more otptiona young woman leverages sexually it damages 💔 her alot more than a man's, if it damages a man at all. Ut actually makes a man more attractive in a sense if experience

More thsn that Orion, most likely most men haven't had any ibtercourse in 5. To 10 yrs.

Is this a Chad or Tyrone program?😮

WAY TOO MANY ADS

I wish they talked about lesbians 😅 cause I think that it isn’t a coincidence woman are more open to woman relationships nowadays. How this connects with the market and also with the fact that some guys don’t know how to approach woman or are less successful than some woman’s who have studied and don’t want to have kids anymore? Open question, wished he could answer to that. Great episode

Consultation will be 5k per hour coming

If your gf or wife gets pissed when she hears him on all the different podcasts then u should look into why lol my girl hates him cause he tells me everything I already new about her lol

The happiest demographic is single and childfree women.

Yes ✅

Why does he says a lot " do you understand" does not sounds good.

Whst percentage of women think Dr Orion is attractive?

100% agree that men should be adored for it to last forever! The choice is yours. If I am wrong and until then, be my guest!

IN FRANCE WOMEN HATE AND SEPARATE BECAUSE OF MISTRESSES, this is not accepted at all!!!

The size of dd is non negotiable 😂

As someone who does all the typical traditional responsibilities, has an education, brings in a joint income, and does not carry any debt going into marriage.... I could not stomach entertaining a relationship with a person who is a liability. Very grateful to have had the self-discipline and ambition to create stability and success in my own life so it could translate over into my relationship. Never waste your time with people who will be a detriment to you or your personal growth. This is such an eye opening discussion on how the modern dating scene is. Godspeed to you all 🫡

Orion is my spirit animal

Love as a transaction is pretty unattractive. This guy makes me never want to date again.

This guy is so weird 😮.

Just give women unlimited options and watch them ruin everything 😂😂

Yes women has always been like this maybe 30% of them but now its even more maybe upwards of 70%

The trends have shifted and spiritual goals like self realization are taking priority in peoples minds and hearts.

This episode had taught me alot with entertaining the dating world and how to choose a mate.

Great interview. The thing that often goes unmentioned, and is hard for the avg normie to believe, is that there are evil elites that run the world who want to steer the world in the direction of attaining massive control over the population, who have been engaging in a multi-century intel operation to destroy everything that gives a human being identity - family, nation, religion, gender, etc...Once ppl understand this, the ridiculousness of radical ideologies like 4th wave feminism make a lot more sense. There are small segments of the population who feel disenfranchised, like the many letters in LGBTQ, and the elites exploit the situation by creating social justice movements in their name for the purpose of further deconstructing and destroying structures that give stability to human lives, like intact families with a mother and father. People need to realize that the loudest voices in these movements, the ones who are given the media megaphone, are change agents, not organic representatives.

I’m logical and I agreed with you ! I am also a Trump fan. Liberals are living in lala land. You said you conservatives aren’t going to win, I see us going back to traditional values since this women’s lib thing isn’t working for either sex. Not way back but just back to common sense gender norms.

This conversation is mainly about glorifying avoidantly attached men. Advocating men to hone their toxic beliefs and behaviours rather than to work on their emotional intelligence and become secure individuals. He also avoids teaching men that they are responsible for the mates they are attracted to, and taking responsibility for THEIR own part of failed relationships.

Discontent Delusional Disney Divas & Feline Fairytale Fantasies 😂

This guy is a snake.

for such a smart man, to live in the bay area, the least optimal dating market for men on earth, makes no sense

It is always about our resources 100% when over 50. They are looking for their RetireMan Plan. Women love resources, not men.

Terminally single at 41, despite living in NYC, being tall and fit, and having a good job. I’m about to officially totally give up. Dating is a waste of time and money.

Orion is great. However, there are too many ads so i couldn't follow. Terrible experience.

We can't go back regarding marriage? What if we cut out welfare and government subsidies? Will we see this if there is no safety net?