Why You Should Always Dress Well at Home

I love wearing Miss Elaine satin pajamas.

I have to dress up every day for work, so when I can slob out, I do it with enthusiasm.

I love to look nice and put together even for a day at home. If not a nice lounge set; then jeans and a nice top. In summer love dresses and linen pants and tops. I always wear earrings, a simple necklace; wedding rings and bracelet. Looking nice really makes me feel good about myself. I have been asked "why are you so dressed up" more than once; even though I was in a simple casual outfit.

Jennifer, were you peeping through my window or watching me at dawn while in the yard picking up my dogs treasures - LOL - I’m frumpy at that time of morning with pjs and robe. Now, I’m giving that dress wear a 2nd look - especially since I was caught by a well dressed young man watching me 😅 AND, the treasures LOL - thank you once again for your insights.

I think I’ve been in a black turtleneck, sweatpants, and fleece vest since before COVID! Just recently, I found Talbots Haven brand and selected some beautiful loungewear, that frankly could be worn to an informal dinner party. Then, a couple of lounge sets from Amazon. I went with a mushroom color for everything. Anything to get out of the black House Hag look😂

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I agree! I grew up seeing my stay at home mother looking out together every day. I did the same. It gave me such a different level of energy and focus than if I had a day of slouchy clothes and no effort. I agree that even jewelry makes a difference. May I ask about the bras? Do they separate? I have tried a few similar and I have been disappointed with the feeling that there is no separation.

I learnt from my Mother , she always showered and put on a nice dress and some makeup every day after her chores were done , she would then freshen up again later in the day before my Father got home from work. A very good role model ♥🙏🏻

I think this is a great reminder! Thx Jennifer

Sometimes i wear lounge wear - nice sets -because i have a digestive issue which causes bloating and pain . When in having a bad , i feel free and comfortable yet put together.

Hi Jennifer - I loved you night dresses. What brands do you choose from? I'm a new follower of yours (around a month or two) and am loving the gentle advice and encouragement. Thank you.

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I get out my tiara when I am dreading the task!! 😉

Jennifer, you always look lovely in any of the outfits you wear. Thank you for the encouraging, uplifting video ❤

Thank you for this video, Jennifer! I have always tried to dress well at home and abroad. Now that I am housebound after an accident five years ago, my practice is to dress in intentional work clothes in the morning (unless I have morning tea visitors!), wash and tidy up at lunchtime, and wear dresses and skirts - in short, nicer things - with nice shoes and often jewellery, in the afternoon. I always do my long hair in a flattering and sometimes a fun way, and first thing in the morning, I do my skin and put on some subtle makeup too. This makes me feel ready for anything, and never on the back foot!

Love this bra! The skin-friendly fabric makes it so comfortable to wear all day. Plus, it’s wire-free, which is such a bonus for breast health! 💖

Just got mine, and I’m obsessed with how soft and gentle it feels on my skin. The fact that it’s wire-free is amazing—so much better for breast health!

Having a capsule wardrobe you love and dressing well everyday are both empowering. Once you begin dressing well every day, extending that into your sleepwear is a must. These practices all beget an elegance that extends into your attitude and behaviors.

This is a great way to extend the life of a beloved but worn dress—keep that for the messy jobs—enjoy the memories and the style.

I got a negative comment from my own mom via my sister. Mom told her I dress up just to go to the store and that I was putting on airs. 🙄 But you know what… even though it stung I decided I dress for myself and my own sense of well being, not to make her happy. So don’t let ANYONE stop you from your own progress or expressing/finding your own style. 👗 💍 And by the way… encourage the women who are trying to do/be better 👑 ♥️

Dear Jennifer, I have a question about the maintenance of good clothing at home: I like to be well dressed at home all day long. When I do homemaking tasks, I wear an apron so that my clothes will not get stained. However, after a long day including cooking, my good clothes, even if still nice, tend to smell from my cooking session. As they are still clean, I try to avoid to laundry them, so I hang them in fresh air during the nights. But they still keep the smell of the kitchen. Do you - or some of my fellow subscribers - have any tips to give on this issue ? Thank you very much in advance for your advice. Best regards, Tamara

My grandma always dressed nice even at home. I admired her for that. She said you just never know who you might see even at home.

Thank you for posting. When I retired earlier this year and was going to stay home and help care for my husband… I decided to mimic “June Cleaver” style.. dresses, aprons etc.. I made several linen dresses, skirts and pants. some better than others… one was kind of a fail.. Especially helpful in summer heat. Not especially fancy, but feminine. I have even had strangers come up and compliment me. I am of the opinion that shorts should be saved for those with great legs. Now that it is finally cooling down..I am in the process of making some merino wool dresses..simple yet comfy, and not show offy. Still need jeans.. but only ones that fit. Still not sure what lounge wear to wear in case I have to answer the door.. I liked your knit outfit. Next step.. I will take your advice and wear some of my many many many pieces of costume and nice jewelry. And I will check out the bra…does it stay cool in sweltering heat? I am still stuck with the 70s slogan…”if you don’t have a hand, why wear a glove”. Wearing a bra that is too hot is horrible and most of the cooler bras are not attractive. Thanks again, and I enjoyed reading your Madame Chic book earlier this year, which gave me some ideas for dressing a little nicer than most of the people I see on the street (short shorts and crop tops…not a great look for .. let;s face it … a senior citizen)

This reminds me of a song by Point of Grace called “How You Live (Turn up the music) The lyric goes, “Wear your your red dress, use your good dishes, make a big mess and make lots of wishes…”

I have found pretty and flattering casual dresses and top/pant ensembles on Amazon and Walmart that are affordable and so comfy yet stylish. I love getting dressed with simple makeup and jewelry every day. I’m retired early to care for my husband who has early onset Parkinson’s Disease. He likes to see me look pretty and put together. It brightens both our days! He dresses nice every day too because he also wants to look presentable always. 💕

How can I scrub the bathroom with bleach in my nice clothes?

I first learned about your channel listening to the Homemaker Chic podcast and have very much enjoyed all of your content ever since. Your book “Lessons from Madame Chic” is beautifully well written, and created a lovely framework for ideas and inspiration after reading it.
Each video you put out is a delightful call to seek for the higher, better, more beautiful mindset for our own selves, regardless of who else is there to witness it. Because the one who witnesses it always and that it makes every difference to is our own selves and that is who should matter the most!
I love it, and I love the boost of motivation and encouragement to live a beautiful life that I receive each time I interact with your content and writing!!
What amazing work, and I appreciate you so much for sharing it! 🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️

Working mostly remote now I wear mostly regular easy care tops I would have worn to work with a pair of jeans or other easy care bottoms. I love your video as it is true you can let yourself become sloppy and boring.

I need to work on this. Thank you for the encouragement!

I believe you have helped so many women for the better with this kind of advice, Jennifer! This was a particularly well-thought out presentation of your often repeated advice, which I have listened to and taken to heart over the years. Your #1 was particularly important- it really drives everything, in my opinion. Getting dressed each day is now a joy that I cherish. My husband works from home, so happily I always have a good reason to look my best. It’s not always perfect- today was unfortunately a “zoom look” kind of day (I looked fine from the top half upwards😂), but you’re always here to pull me back in line. Thank you!💛☺

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Jennifer, I always love your videos. This was amazing. I have been following you for years and have been fumbling a round trying to figure out my style. I have finally through attempts getting it figured out. I love being a homemaker more than ever now. I have been finding style and being deliberate about what I am choosing to put into my closet. Thank you so much! ❤

Yes! I agree, loved this and also the ytuber inspired by nikki....dressing well everyday for ourselves and healthy hapoy lifestyle

Hello Jennifer,
I just retired from the hospital. I wore scrubs for years I am try so hard not to fall in a rut I have nice clothes and jewelry, sometimes I just sleep in a old t-shirt thanks for the encouragement I know I need to start dressing at home and using nice sleepwear.
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Jennifer, I love you to death. But there is absolutely NOTHING in my wardrobe that I consider "comfortable". I DESPISE wearing a certain undergarment, which most women will have no problem identifying. If one is "large" in a certain area, there is no adequately designed garment that provides any measure of comfort. Women who are not large in a certain area will NEVER understand unless they themselves become substantially larger. And believe it or not, most plastic surgeons do not, repeat not, "like" to do reductions for those who are large. Such procedures are not joyful to perform. I know. I've talked to them. So, I don't invite people to my home. Perhaps not an optimal arrangement in your sight. But, I'm a faithful subscriber all the same.

I have just hopefully finished changing over my wardrobe for winter and have a large tote bag to give away to the white elephant sale later this year. I tried a combination of skirt and top today and the skirt went into the tote bag. 😀 yay

Jennifer, thank you so much for all the content you put out. It truly brightens my day. I want to report on Comfelie. I purchase one of their bras on your recommendation and it didn't go well. The bra is not built for small chested women (B cups) the material bunches and can only be worn with crew neck tops. On top of that their return policy is really bad. They only offer 7 days from arrival, all sorts of restrictions, no links on how to print any labels and I've tried to contact them many times over the phone with no luck. I've never experienced such a disappointing customer service from an online store.

my husband regularly upgrades our home, he said i deserve a beautiful office. Ive been a stay at home mom and homemaker for 40+ years. Dressing for work is important too!

“Banishing limiting beliefs” is the top tip for me and will challenge that “comfort” notion. I like using scarves and jewellery to dress up my daily wear, but that #1 tip will inspire me to reach for my “fancy” clothes as well on a daily basis. Thank you for your inspiring videos and books Jennifer!

Can anyone share any bra recommendations for bottom heavy breasts that are also "east west" shape? I need something that lifts and also provides side support without being thr traditional push up bra cups. An underwire is necessary for me as im 34ddd.

Jennifer can you talk about your ring stack and the significance of each ring? 💍

Dressing well at home really improved my self esteem. I love expressing my true style (I call it “elderly Irish fisherman” as I live very North😂) and I love wearing my favourite pieces of jewelry and get a little boost of joy when I see them or catch a glimpse of my reflection. Seeing myself look well put together gives me a sense of self respect and dignity.

I may have to try a lounge wear set, they do look chic when you wear them. For me, I think what makes the difference away from frumpy to chic is when it is a monochromatic set, I really like that! Thanks Jennifer!

Ive always dressed well everywhere i go.. at home . I just feel more productive. I feel good.

You said most of your viewers are retired, stay at home moms etc i always thought the lifestyle you described was out of my reach because I'm a nurse and work outside the home. One day, I had an epiphany. I work 3 to 4 days a week! That means I'm off 3 to 4 days a week and those days are mine. I can have that elegant lifestyle on those days. Thank you for your channel.

I’m so glad you mentioned intentional loungewear. I remember in one of your books you spoke against it, but I’ve always felt like comfortable and chic loungewear is great for days where you’re staying home all day or if your children are you are sick and you want to be comfortable.

Love this, something I had been struggling with with regards to appearance is my hair, I love it but it requires a lot of work and maintenance. I started noticing an huge incline of women wearing bonnets outside!, Its become very common where I live. So for my bad hair days/ lounging around moments/ being called out for an emergency I brought these really beautiful hair bands in different fabrics and colours and they make me look so much more pulled together. x Thanks for the inspiration

I do wear some sweats when doing really dirty work. I just learned recently, (I am 69!), that I should make myself presentable every day whether or not I am going out in public just because I feel better doing it. My mother did it with four children.....so, it should be a no-brainer for me.🤦🏻‍♀️. Not sure what took me so long. Glad I just found your channel.☺️

Ughh I want to do this sooo badly. I just feel so comfortable in sweatpants lol im going to overcome this belief though because I can't stand the fact that my son's want to wear sweatpants everywhere we go.