The Scandinavian Masculinity Crisis: How Progressive is Too Progressive? | Java Documentary

That swedish podcaster who leads a relationships advice program is single and can not find a man 😂😂😂

The kids thing is really sad :( . Poor boys

Amazing how uneducated and blathering most of the top comments sound. If your sense of masculinity is so fragile, maybe that means there’s a weakness in your sense of masculinity, rather than in the concept itself.

Guys...it was shot in one alternative school, that's totally not the norm in Iceland!!

the equality is very superficial. Just push the men and the vicking comes out...

Why not let people live their lifes the way they want to? Why not let men and women just pursue their goals in life wether it be a career, family...?

I find it funny how many are complaining that the boys are being taught to be quiet and small ans the girls taught to be aggressive, and how unfair it is. Yet when it was the other way around for centuries everyone was asking why women felt that way.

Much of this is weird, but it isn't representative of Scandinavia

Africans will not believe

It isn't necessary (and I would say normally) the case for man to feel "threatened" of strong, independent and therefore dominant and assertive women. Man are more often then not by virtue of nature (testosterone, brain structure) and how they are socialized dominant and assertive too. Having a dominant wife is just not worth the hassle.

Why would you want to be challanged all the time at home when most man have this all the time outside of their home.

I mean women can lie to themself all they want about how man can't handle their girl power when it is just the case that they don't bring their man the most important thing... Peace.

Iceland is lost

Never in my life saw women just approach men in the club. lol you will have us americans going wild with that

The elites love folks like y'all 😂😂😂, 🐑🐑🐑

All of these Nordic countries have very low birth rates among other problems.

This is total emasculation - the women who push these things know nothing outside of their bubble and how dangerous this is for men’s mental health

Iceland seems like hell on earth...

This "documentary" is very misleading. Schools in Iceland do not split the girls from the boys nor most of the kindergartens. There are few kindergartens that do that and the parents choose to put their kids there and pay for it. I would never put my kids there, the woman that they interviewed is the one that started these kind of kindergarten, she is gay and has the rainbow/transflag on a flag pole outsite the kindegarden, which l find crazy, that has nothing to do with kids and should not be a flag in a kindergarten.
Not all Icelandic ppl are like these ppl in this movie, thankfully. We do still have a lot of strong men and hopefully it will stay that way, l fear for these poor boys in this crazy kindegarden 😢

Equality is not uniformity but diversity.

Not gonna work. You can't go against human hard wiring.

Che pena😢la vedo male molto male😢i Vichinghi si stanno rivoltando nella t....😢

This documentary is so eye-opening! It's amazing to see how love and relationships work in Scandinavia. Such an interesting watch!

A society on the downfall.

Here is the translation:

No one says that a boy has to be violent or domineering... on the contrary, a boy/man should be protective, calm, wise, and understanding.
What is happening here is against nature, and people wonder why men in this society are shy and intimidated when they meet a woman.
To me, it sounds like a nursery of monsters.

This is Disgusting how they are destroying those Boys in Iceland.

So there basically teaching Girls to be Boys and Boys to be Girls thats Evil. There are different ways to teach children. This is Sicking. What happened to Real Men

If women are Equal to Men then women should carry the Men in the Same obstacle. Come on Man. We are not equal and have different strengths.

it appears those people are looking for something that does not exist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!what a life to live!!!!no thanks

Ask 100 women who is to blame. Men. Ask 100 men and guess what they will not say, it is all the mens fault :)
Modern society is so self centered almost narcissist. Do people not want to make it work unless they get their way 100%?


I am Swedish having lived here all my life, we in Scandinavia are extreme when it comes to be independent. It is good trait but there is a risk one becomes just to much in your own bubble just to alone.

THAT'S CREEPY

Attraction is not a choice.

These 38 year old women are single because of hypergamy. They want a man that has more money and status than they have and those men are either already married, or divorced or seeking younger women with less baggage.

They are the "Prize" to the men that they don't want.

Wife carrying would be fun. The women approach the men in the bars, etc. to ask for a date? Interesting! But if we tolerate everything, then we've truly lost it. How sad!

I loved Iceland till I saw this

Equal pay should be enforced everywhere in the world. No choice should be given.

Мир сошел с ума. 😢Оказывается в России не все так плохо. Страны с таким неестественным отношением к мужчинам и женщинам долго не просуществуют

Scandinavia is like horror movie.

Finland isn't in Scandinavia

Somebody (match makers) must always profit from the ills in society

iceland is NOT scandinavia

WHAT DA FAK HAV I SIIN

Scandinavian countries are one of the most successfull countries in lot of feilds.. Statistic and history back it up... All of you can just bark.. 😁

Love and sex are far away things from Scandinavia

I think there are things necessary to be addressed in American or general cultures that do take away powers from women or belittle the importance of feminine women in society, but the real danger is demasculinizing men and defeminizing women.
I was really going to let them cook and be open minded abt it. Like if they are happy so be it, it might work for them and not for us (Americans), but it seems like loneliness is an issue so my initial opinions about their schooling system being wack seems correct.
Not to mention, it is propagating a society where children are not properly raised by parents since both are working, women have to over work and burn out to meet societal expectations of being the leader of the house, the mother, and work. And if Sweden were to get attacked by like Russia, they WILL NOT stand a chance by a strong Russian army.

Its basic human evolution and sociology. Men and women have evolved to fit into roles of what is deemed masculine and feminine for a reason. It's an idea that propagates through sex and culture. Fighting against it is plain stupid and counterproductive.
You see that when men don't find authoritative women attractive (to which the women say the men are "intimidated"- like no, it is biological for men to be attracted to feminine and reserved qualities) and women don't find docile men attractive as they don't take any interest or initiative to further the relationship.

Progressivism as an idea to erase hundreds and thousands of years of social evolution is so dangerous. And the sad part is, they will all die thinking they were martyrs for the future and social progress of humanity, when this idea will naturally die out by lack of reproduction.

So basically they lied to them there whole life growing up and just not telling them sad

Isn't it an interesting fact about the human nature (maybe, it is wrong to call it "nature", because it is against the nature), that a society kills the manhood of their own men and start seeking men that are not like their men 🤔Probably, it is the clear proof that all this gender equality and sexual freedom concepts wind up being a failure. The same story, for instance, that high position, high income, emancipated women go to the Caribbean or Central American countries for holiday to find a strong and real man. There was a good documentary on that. On the contrary, many European men go to Asia to find a real woman (another documentary). Some (that have the illusion of being progressive) do not understand the law of nature (how it operates) and cannot comprehend the fact: You cannot eat and save your cake.
So, the result: loneliness, superficiality, and the drop of birth rates in European countries. How should we address the issue? Systematic self-hate or alienation?
The title is called "Nordic Love", but it should have been "The loss of love", because there is no love relation anymore. Only a mechanic, and technology-based, lust-oriented structural society. Is this really progress? Over-rationalization and worship of a conceptual reality only produce cold and tasteless people, like lab-grown fake meat and artificially sweetened drinks.

What the head of this insane school program has observed is that it's probably better to have schools that keep the boys and girls separate, not pushing the boys into submission. We need adult men to step in here and stop this child abuse, cause these middle aged women have totally lost it.

Disgusting strategy being applied on innocent little boys