3 Ways Of Looking At Our Mistakes | Gaur Gopal Das

TQ sir U have given me hope. Now I am facing a difficult time bcoz my good friendship in school was broken I feel alone in class and I hurt them deep without knowing what I did and after I try to correct my mistake but that not getting cleared because the hurt of so deep I think theirs no cure. But what they hurt than that more rate I am feeling sad and alone. But my parents gaved me a hope because I am doing hardwork for parents dream and they are enough for me.

The biggest mistake is “I was born “

❤️. Thank you

Very true and fruitful message 🙏😇🥰

Well said guru ji...Keep inspiring u r awesome,😊🤗

Apko pata hai ap Hindi nahi bolet isliye me cha kv nahi dekha pati apka video galti ap ki hai meri koiki me English nahi aati

😂it happens unintentionally also

Thank you Prabhuji....you are awesome !

Thank you prabhuji ji
Hare Krishna

I did sexual mistakes in childhood in ignorance take pleasure and got abused by cousins who looses my innocence..
I wish I was a little adult to understand everything but feel unlucky about it that I'm not pure perfect like other girls but yes I learn from them and try to learn from those girls who r perfect.. And did right action when my mom told me do not make bf in adulthood so I haven't just for my parents focused on my studies well and got gold medal and make them feel proud one time in my life and wanted to make them feel proud more..
I mean I'm not perfect like other girls but try to take right action now.. Try to speak up learn to say no where I supposed to be.. Practicing self control meditation to improve try to implement on bhagwad geeta and wanted to be loyal forever with my partner but don't think I deserve a partner now.. Even though my mom said you does don't repeat it again.. And I never
Whom soever loose my innocence in childhood I treat them as my enemies and I never allow them in my life.. They were so called relatives doing so.. I feel unsafe from them now due to trauma they have given to me.. And now my father new about it.. I said sorry to my parents because when I was 4 I have tried to reveal about it but my body got freezed and was not able to tell I used sign language to tell my father to tell him that he touched my vagina my father didn't understand he said beta aisaa ni krte h gndi bat..
I have tried my level best to reveal everything but abusers uses guilt tripping emotional manipulation brainwash force coercion
Even if I say no they ignore...
At age 14 maine thoda gusse se no bolna chalu kiya ki mujhe ni krna h but usne threat kiya or kha tere maa baap mar dege drte drte mumma ko 15 years m sab reveal kiya.. Or vo bhi kisi friend s puch k ki meri friend ki story h y usse kya krna cahiye then she said mumma ko bta dena cahiye tb jake mumma ko reveal kiya I was about to sucide but socha apne fear ka samna krti hu or sach bol k dekhti hu..
Then I feel freedom... Or papa ko at age 24 m btaya sab mistakes ka ni btaya but ha y chij btayi h ki abuse kiya tha even though maine mumma s bola m papa ko bta du mumma n bola nhi..
Kash thodi akal hoti meko samjh hoti awareness hoti or pleasure response ni milta or 9 log na hote abuse krne wale bari bari s to m confuse na hoti meko bachpan m lgta tha sab aisaa hi krte h idher to to meko y chij normal lgi thi.. Or meri innocence loose kr di.. I'm such a dumb gullible kid who trusted everyone.. Even Have fear of my life ki y sab krna hi pdega or koi choice ni vrna abuser mar dalega.. Meko right action lene s bhi draya ki agr parents ko btayegi to vo mujhe mar dalege..
Khair ab to dono parents ko pta h but mere pass koi evidence nhi to khule ghum re vo abusers parents legal action k support m nhi h because they r relatives bolte h aise rishte nhi todte h log mujhe bolege log ni samjhege..
And now I feel really disgusting about " Sex" Taking pleasures and even I don't know bacho ko treat kaise krte h tbh.. I hate kids kyunki abuser k samne samne roti thi vo tb bhi abuse krte the.. Teacher ko reveal krne ki koshish ki teacher ka shocked face yad h meko nursery ki bat h to teacher n mera pain ignore kr diya or kha jao or bacho k sath khelo... Ek stranger bhaiya ko btaya he said mumma papa ko ni btana vrna badnami ho jayegi.. And I remained quiet.. Logo n mujhe kbhi right action lene diya hi nhi hmesha misguide kiya... Then I don't know should I love people or hate them bomb blast krne ka mnn krta h mera kyi bar duniya tabah kr du but ni kr skti..
So I choose to make my parents proud financial independence p focus kr ri hu unke uper bhoj ni bnna cahti.. Or shadi k layak m na hu or girls ki tarah perfect bus gltiyo s seekha h or unko repeat nhi kiya h meko to drr lgta h pyar s because bachpan m mai jb 5 sal ki thi abuser n kha tha I'm your husband he was my cousin or meko lgta tha bhaiya pyar kr re h kbhi dra re h He confused me now I'm scared of love..
And jb jb no bolti thi to forcefully krte the kiss meko I feel trapped guilty ashamed disgusted for 11 years of abuse even got some memories of infant abuse but not sure about it.. Suffering hell trauma but ab khud ki life h khud ko khud hi thik krna pdega kb tk sabke uper dependant rhugi kisko kisko blame krugi apni Bewakoofiyo k liye agr meri life m y situation na ati to m bhi or girls ki tarah perfect hoti.. Meko 13 sal tk lgta tha bhagwaan bachaane ate h.. Agr pyar s bolugi to chod dege..
But from God grace still getting my periods bilkul perfectly normal but kya fayida meko y body ka part pasand ni mnn krta h nikal k fhenk du
But sach m jb bdi hui to proposal tk bhi atey the na I got fear and guilt ki mumma ko jake kaise btaugi.. But m bta deti thi.. Or mna kr deti thi ...ek teacher ko reveal kiya because I was having little bit difficulty in focussing he said agr difficulty hogi kisi student ko to btana yoga k dauran and told him about abuse and he was 60+ old man he said mere do bache h m divorcee hu.. I felt really uncomfortable and bad why I revealed to him made another mistake and learned sabko apni life k bare m na btao sab nhi samjhte h log or use krne ka sochte h.. Bus mumma papa ko pta h na ek dost ko pta h jo support kr re even kuch achhe logo ko bhi pta h.. But sabko m isliye bta ri because I have fear of judgement jo meko nikalna h but in personal life m bahut hi samjhdar logo s share kru jo samjhe pain ko or vo vhi samjh skta h jo iss pain s gujra h bus maine khul k bta diya... Emotional neglect bullying sexual abuse statutory rape sexual assualt threat coercion fear to save my life fear of guilt because I was taking pleasures but don't know what to do about it fear of abandonment supression abuser ki bat manke glti or stupidity krna meri innocence ka satyanash hona I cannot change anything literally anything.. M or bacho k jaise samjhdar na thi chalak si ki samjh k action lu jo thode achhe log lge unko reveal krne ki koshish ki but nhi kr payi y soch k y meri bato p yakeen nhi krege and y inke bache h y meko hi bolege apne bacho ko defend krege.. Na parents ko bta skti thi na strangers p bhrosa tha na hi kisi or p... Because koi dost ni tha mera or abuser aise treat krta tha jaise vo mera dost ho he gave me special attention meko lga y meko samjhte h maine pucha tha aap or didi k sath bhi same krte h kya then he didn't replied said no maine pucha mere sath kyu he said kyunki m tera deewana hu I was just in 2nd or 3rd class.. And two cousins forcefully kissed me when I said no I supressed the pain was about to cry ek cousin n to scream tk krne ka mauka ni diya m bhag gyi or mere ghar p ake game khelne lgg gya maine usse gussa krke ghar s bahar nikala or mumma n meko dant diya ki aise behave kyu kr ri h and I got shocked .. Really shocked
Uss samay tk m sochti thi ki jo pyar s krte h vo bhaiya achhe h jo zabardasti krte h vo bure

I honestly sometimes i accept my mistake whatever the ypunger guy or elder guy told. We are accepting mistakes that is very good for my life in a pleaseant and peaceful manner. If we are doing any mistake then that the mistake will teach you one lesson for us. This is my opion. If anyone noticed mistakes in my text please let me know. I corrected that mistakes i learned from you that is very helpful for my future.
Thanks in advance

Thank you guru ji this really made me feel so much better.

Wow

When I was younger I made a mistake that I deeply regretted due to built of anger. In last year I went back to give apology and was shown nothing but compassion. The thing is I didn’t deserve that kindness they were giving me, it made me cry. I still think of the mistake I made many years back because I’m needing to accept the mistake for myself and fully heal. To those that have made a mistake they deeply regret, know that you have a good heart and are worthy of kindness. Let’s work to improve together, and the world needs healed people, and highly compassionate people more than ever.

I only have made mistakes in my life feom past 18 years 😑 now I have started relising my mistakes now want to be alone or far away from everyone so tha m apne galtiyoon aur apne aap ko sudharu kyu ki duniya aesa karne nhi degi

I am watching this because i have make mistake in moring in my examnation

एकदम सही बात है।👍👍

😂 I am 20 and sold total property for gambling and not corrected

Beautiful

Ye to Guruji bhi bolte hai

Sir please use Hindi language.

Oh, yeah? Well, try me. Apparently I can't redeem myself, not even after nearly losing my life. I was once taken to my boss's office--with her and her chef colleague--for touching my coworkers too much (CASUALLY on arms or shoulders). I was always very outgoing and tactile at work. The chef told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment. That I shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school or tell my stories, because they may be inappropriate or upsetting (can't remember her exact words) to others. Now yeah, I pretty much didn't have a filter, but I don't think I said anything horrible. I only meant to have fun with my crew. I really didn't get specific information from the chef about subjects and references. She liked that I was outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits. And again, that I shouldn't touch anyone without consent.

And then when I nearly died in a car accident, the chef refused to change her mind about her speech. I overheard her tell my boss (who felt remorse for how they handled me) that while she was very happy I survived and regretted my severe injury, it didn't change how she felt about my mistakes. That no matter what would've or could've happened to me, what I did would always be wrong and what they did would always be right. "A person's faults are not reduced by their near-passing. He did what he did, and we had to talk to him about it. That truth can't be belittled by his tragic moment. Right is right, wrong is wrong"

I was hurt at first, but you know what? I think she's right. I think my moment of redemption is over. I'm always gonna be that guy. I have to live with the consequences. I'm fine now from the car accident, but my pride and self-forgiveness is gone. Sometimes you can't redeem yourself.

Thankyou guruji for your kind words :)

Hare Krishna Guruji 🙏🏼

Progressive life is to accept that I made a mistake and to try not to repeat it again and improve ✨

I am accepting my mistake that I didn't study my whole semester and at the end now i am regretting but promise in next semester i will not do it again 😊😊😊

Now I no how to accept a mistake

Career ki suruwat se pehele hi bada galti kar diya ab meri zindagi kaha ja rahi koyi ata pata nahi kab quit kardun pata nahi😢😢

Mistake shows the past

Acceptance shows the present


Improvement shows the future 🌸

No-one is perfect everyone will do mistakes if i corrected my mistake 1 its fine i wont do it but wt if i got miskate2 and saying always ur mistakes 😢😢 im getting a feeling like im born like a dum😢😢😢

अबे अंग्रेज की औलाद हिंदी मे बोल

Do some exercise. All those millions you make with your bullshit is making you obese. Enough of nonsensical gyan and start diet…..haram ka paisa is showing

Coolest 😎 monk
Hare Krishna 🧡🙏🚩

Yes I am trying to justify my mistake so badly now a days.😅😅😅 Yes I made a mistake unconsciouslly. yes there would be few reasons why I did tht but yes I made it. Ye huya h mujhse again.

🙏🏻

Thank you so much

Jai Shree KRISHNA

Thanku sir ❤

The naked truth always comes in front of the person one day. All the mistakes can be forgiven in my opinion if you love the person, but murder can never be forgiven and we should never see that person's face!

My enemies punished by brother by paralysing him for my mistake, i feel very guilty about it 😢😢😢

Very true ❤

Thank you Guruji

great video!! Accept mistakes and improve yourself

Thank you for these words...😢...i am regretting my mistakes my decisions...but i feel blessed realising my mistakes...and try to not repeat it and knowing it well and improve in my life...

Thank you ❤❤

Thank u guru ji..

I am regretting my lot's of mistakes

I haven't done any mistake

I am doing a same mistake again and again..how to come out from the loop