Husband Jokes About Eating Her Cat

Just reminds me of that post where a couple treat their cat differently
The example op shows in that post is:
[cat w a laundry basket over him]
Op: in jail for bastard crimes
Ops wife: noooooo free him!! He's a good boy!
Ops mom: I have no sympathy for this felon

absolutely FUCK that way of flirting it’s so problematic and is absolutely a learned behaviour and is really demeaning and negatively impactful to girls.

"he's half vietnamese" that some racist shit

Okay but my fam jokes like this in regards to our birds, we see animals as animals not really as companions but we still treat them with respect obviously their living beings too, it's just funny 🤷‍♀️

I've always had and loved cats, and I've always made jokes about fattening them up and cooking them. I even made this joke to my newborn nephew (sorrynotsorry) it's a joke!

This is obviously just to get a reaction, I had an uncle that always used to say that KFC stood for Kentucky fried cat just because he knew I hated it, I started ignoring it and he got bored of saying it pretty quick.

My dad would constantly tell my when I was younger that he was gonna make guinea pig soup for literally no reason, except he found it funny. But it really it just dad humor. I think this is how all dad brains work. They’re strange.

I always threaten to put my dog in the oven and eat her for dinner when she’s naughty and she’s the sweetest little angel who I adore, and it seems like everyone in the comments does similar things haha. Maybe we just need to establish why we as people seem to do it to satisfy her question

Seriously, he's only doing it to get a rise out of her. IGNORE HIM AND HE'LL STOP.

We say we're gonna put my sister in the oven all the time, especially around the holidays. The fact that she felt the need to mention her husband was half Vietnamese makes me think she's reading too much into this because of her own prejudice

I literally named my cat stir-fry in Korean
Lil bokeum Francine

"why does he joke that the cat doesn't have a daddy? Aren't you the daddy?" I think that's the joke!!! That he has disowned her

i always tell my dogs that i’m taking them to mcdonalds so they can be made into chicken nuggies LSSKKSKSS i don’t think it’s that serious

I agree that he’s just joking, but I think what’s actually upsetting her is that she’s tried to set a boundary with her partner and he’s refused to respect that. In that regard, it doesn’t matter what the boundary is, it’s still rude af. If she’s explained to him how much it upsets her, and he keeps doing it (regardless of how funny he/we find it) then he’s being a jerk, period.

I’ve told my sibling I’m going to roast them in the oven lmaooooo it’s become a family joke. My cat I tell I’m going to sell her when she is bad 😂 the same way we do to kids in our house; my mom was always like “I’m going to sell you to the highest bidder” and it’s kind of the same thing lol

Probably because it annoys her lol, jeez I couldn't imagine getting annoyed over jokes like this I do this with my cat all the the time except mine don't normally revolve around soup.

I always ask my husband, “what should we do for dinner tonight?” Almost always he says “dog,” while looking at our dog, it’s funny, and I’m sure the boyfriend in this post is saying all that in good fun.

Omfg I'm so tired of this "he's picking on you because he likes you" garbage. Learn better communication, teach kids to be better, and don't put up with your partner purposefully irritating you... Ffs

I love my cats but they are one broken apartment blind blade away from going straight to the sausage factory 🤣 with the Vietnamese thing that this tap dances along the lines of racism and I think that’s really wack. This lady needs a sense of humor.

I also say things when my cats are being bad I don’t mean like ‘I’m going to give you away on Facebook marketplace for $5’ or ‘you’re going out to be farm cats again I can’t handle you’ but I’d never do it to them, I could never part with them

My former husband and I adopted a cat that had been hit by a car and taken to a teaching hospital where his sister was a vet student. We named her "Pancake" and half the vet students thought we were sickos and half thought it was hilarious. Several years later I found a kitten in a bush outside of a Chinese Buffet, and we came very close to giving her another totally inappropriate name. I also had a roommate who was half Chinese half Polish (so he was the king of bad jokes) who kept asking my dog "Do you want to be fried up in a WOK!?" It was funny because he was making fun of himself as much as the dog. This lady probably would not have had a very fun time at our house.

My family tell those kinds of jokes too when our cats misbehave. We tell them we will make them into tacos if they keep it up, or their behavior is the reason why they are our emergency food supply. We obviously mean it as a joke as we care about them so I think the husband is joking to get the wife mad

Don't purposely do something repeatedly that makes someone else clearly uncomfortable for the sake of your entertainment. It's not cute or funny. It's disrespectful. Sure, the husband has no real intentions of hurting the cat and is just teasing the wife, but I don't think we should just tell the wife to suck it up. Let's not assume she just lacks humor in general. If this really bothers her, she needs to, as sternly and calmly as possible, tell him to cut it out. If he refuses, hopefully he'll gradually drop it over time and that'll be the end of it. Hopefully he just found this one thing unbelievably funny and that's all this was. Or maybe he was just expressing his real frustrations with the cat and they actually had a problem that needed solving. But if he has a tendency of picking on his wife for fun, this could fester into long-term bitterness and destroy the relationship.

Hey little mama little me whisper in your ear. Tell you Something That you like to hear:


"ᴵᵐ ᵍᴼᶰᶰᴬ ᵖᵁᵗ ʸᵒᵁ ᶤᶰ ᵗᴴᵉ ˢᴼᵘᴾ"

me and my boyfriend always say we're gunna cook our two cats when deciding what to eat for dinner lol it sounds like he has good humor

Ben is Zyler's Step-dad

im sure it just a joke me and my mom love our dogs alot but everytime they misbehaved we joke saying we are gonna cook them and make soup but it was just a joke. we put them on the induction cooker sometimes too but it was always off we would never hurt them it was just a way to joke around w the dogs to make them behave more but the dogs knew it was a joke too cause they would sit on the stove until we take offer to carry them off it. it's nothing but a harmless joke we do not in anyway condone to animal abuse so yeaaaaaaaaaaa and this is coming from a southeast asian :))

Ny hakf asian boyfriend always tell my dogs "I'm gonna eat you" but he adores them, it doesn't bother me XD

Her husband is a super troll lol

So here's my hot take, that guy sounds like a total douchebag.

Call CPS. Cat Protective Service.

I work at an animal shelter, sometimes when my cat's acting up I tell her that I would leave her there but no one would adopt her so im stuck with her LMAO (100% joke I adore that lil shit)

I had a Mini Dachshund whose legs look like drumsticks and my boyfriend and I joke about it saying we are going to eat his chicken legs. We do the same with our Chiweenie we pretend to eat them when playing around with the dog. It's just a joke taken too seriously.

I don't know if it's boy brain exactly. I (25 F) joke about making my moms cat into a burrito and eating her. Its kinda like dark humor.

What got me worried is when he refused to explain why he was saying those things. If he's teasgin, he'd be more ridiculous about it. The refusal gave me a psychopath vibes, tbh.

Jeez... why the "Vietnamese" joke? Not funny!... random people on the internet.

When my cat is bad I tell him we're having Mu Shu Kitty for dinner.

Lol.

My family often jokes they're fattening up my dog for Thanksgiving and my sister will constantly remind her that she's adopted.

We always tell our dog that she's a meatball and that we're going to eat her, she doesn't mind because she's a dog and because she gets cuddles

I LOVE these little highlights so much, because then the comment section is a treasure trove of little stories and opinions about that specific part of the podcast. I've been hoping this one would be a highlight ever since the last episode came out. Reading about other pet owners threatening their pets with soup and the like are a deLIGHT 😄

Honestly I think this is referring to a joke for it’s always sunny in philli. One of the characters worked in a factory in Vietnam dnd used to shoot strat cats to put in the soup. If a worker died toss him in the soup etc

Can we delve a little deeper into Ben's ambivalence about being Xyler's stepdad, as compared to the being the full-fledged cat dad of Menchie?

my dad doesnt like animals because of traumatic childhood experiences but always jokes about throwing our cat over the back fence or making "chicken chow-meow" with her, but theyre just that 😂 he wouldnt actually do it

I honestly think that there's a bit of a microagression there, that fact that they had to mention that he's Vietnamese.
I'm sure he doesn't actually mean it. It's mostly a jokes.

Parents joke how they're gonna kill their kids as a joke if the kid does something stupid, but they don't mean it.
Probs the same how pet owners joke stuff like that with their animals but there's literally no mal intention.

If the partner on the other hand really is bothered by it, I think she should just confront him.

My dogs nickname is chicken, because when he lays down his butt looks like a rotisserie chicken, and when he lays on his back and stretches his lil back legs they look like drumsticks.

Hearing this clip about the soup made me realize exactly how many KFC jokes are made in my household...

She could have told him in the same way that she will pull Lorena Bobbit or say snip, snip real sweetly whenever he does this behavior.😅Tha is just me though

We tell my cat that we would eat the dog first if the apocalypse happens.