Pathological projective identification.

What other species does this to their own offspring?!

I only realized how evil my parents were/are when I had my own child. Unfortunately his mother is 10x as evil as my folks so there is no escaping it for him. The law has enforced 50/50 as they do not recognise sociopathic/narcissistic mothers as anything but money makers for the family law system due to their insatiable desire to bring costly court applications

This is how we grew up and feel as children. Does anything change when we reach adulthood? No. We have the same parents and the same experiences of upbringing until our last will to draw breath. It's way worse than Dr Reid describes it.

Parents are horrible people. Most of them should not have children. they are destroying their own children.