Secret Service Agent: STOP Being The "Nice Girl" & Enter Your Bad B*tch Era! | Evy Poumpouras

Most women who grew up with brothers don't have this issue. Especially if they are older and love to taunt you.

Yiu learn real quick to tell people to fvck off!

Itis okay to chek partners phone

Thank you

She definitely read Jako Williams book, "Extreme ownership"

My Greek boss was like that too, she would steal my property and get angry with me. Another African American female employee started fights because they didn’t like Asian Indian American women.

Bad bitches lose every time

Thank you,!❤

Can I just throw one idea up in the air? What is wrong with finishing last? Where do you need to 'finish' and what does it mean to be 'first' versus 'last'? If you spend your life catapulting other people forward, inspiring others, helping them to thrive... does that mean you have failed somehow?

I had supervisor reprimand me at my last job in-front of everyone and i walked away for a minute too to calm down because nothing good was going to come out of my mouth. I asked her and third person to come outside and we discussed it. The next week she let me go and I called her boss and her boss called me back to work and her boss ended up reprimanding her in private. Her boss also told me she can’t do that and that she is not a supervisor even though she was telling me the whole time I was there that she was. Covid hit and fate intervened. I don’t care who it is no deserves to be treated disrespectfully.

I went from being a nice girl to a Kick-ass girl. Please ladies, don't leave this earth, leave your horrible partners instead. I left my husband after 20 years of abuse. I left with nothing and had nowhere to stay. Spent 9 months in a women's shelter and now I'm going through a horrible divorce. Don't give up, become a warrior, not a worrier! 🙏

Women need this kind of advice, instead of 3 reasons why he's avoiding you and what you can do to win him back

I will never not check a man’s phone again after being with a “porn addict” aka entitled man child with no integrity. It changed me. The way they can lie. No man is so trustworthy that I’m not looking through his phone. Could have saved me years of my life

The "high level delegate" general should be extremely ashamed of himself. In a position of leadership but yet does not act like a leader. Maybe he brute forced/clawed his way up.

why this appear for me if im a man? 🤣

Love the Audition reference 😮

REALLY WANTED TO LISTEN, BUT TOO MUCH PROFANITY. Foul language does not make a person seem strong, it makes them seem lowly and inarticulate.

Nice is horrible anyways, people need to be 'kind' - which is 'REAL' xoxox

I love to listen to Evy however I disagree with her about one thing. For one if someone says they are going to pray for me I say "Thank you", I'm glad to know anyone is praying for me. I don't care if they think they're self righteous, as long as their praying for me. LOL

She looks so mean and I like it.

BLA BLA BLA that guest says so much crap. Checking his phone? Oh Shut .. !

So she gets her ass kicked by Chinese delegates. And our president does Diddley about it would like to know what president that was it couldn't have been Clinton because he's kick ass

Many, many women who come to my healing practice are NOT NICE to begin with. They would lóve this clip. If you need to be a bad b*tch to feel safe, you're doing something wrong. Poumpouras is saying this to justify her own coldness? I love your work, Lisa, but you can't just say this to everyone.

THANKYOU SO MUCH! That's exactly how Im living from now on 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

You two ladies are friends in my head . I can relate to this . I overcome this. These words are gold !❤❤❤

My daughter is so bada$$. Her diplomatic response to her colleague - and older male - she simply said, “thank you for your comments but I disagree and won’t be taking that on board”. Mic drop

Plan on staying single, or be a lesbian at a 30% success rate. Men don't want Bad Bitches, It's like dating a Man. This is 4 years old, wonder why all these single men and Woman cant find love. This is the destructive recipe

I love these ladies! Even the way Evy sits is confident and strong. Love it!❤

I was always this quiet girl.. One day i stood up for myself when these people were disrespecting me stepping over the boundaries. I had it and I talked back.. The person fell silent. When I told this to my own family. They told me it's wrong and they yelled at me and made me feel bad about my own words and trying to protect myself. I cried that night. I cannot believe they want me to grow up to be a people's pleaser.

My bf stole my phone read my text. He knows I'm talking to a friend he's so jealous!
Like how do I get him to. Let it go dude. He's being such a asshole! like he might cry omg !!

What should I say?

Get reall.

...and this is why she is still single. No man, no children, no family. Im sure she is happy tho 😂😂😂

I think being on a partner's phone is all about trust. If you both are able to be on each other's phone and respect privacy (not searching for "evidence") that means there is a strong level of trust between the two people. Using your partner's phone to search for an address on Google, to make a call because your phone is dead.....the minute you are searching for evidence means that trust was broken and it requires rebuilding. Trust means you aren't lying to each other or hiding facts, or omitting truths....doing that breaks trust and ultimately respect

Nice girls quit

How can you apply these insights as a person of faith, eg, xtian?

I left my old job after the newly promoted CEO tried to bully me. When I stood up for myself she was shocked and infuriated. Any time I have stood up for myself in my life, people didn’t like it. If I don’t stand up for myself, no one will.

oddly enough, I've learned from the chihuahua I had from a puppy,until she passed at 21. She was very friendly to family,even cousins who were grabby toddlers at first who were a bit rough with her. When she was an adult, my teenage self moved with my mom across the country to live with a stepdad who did not feel the need to respect someone who was a whopping 7lbs. He threw her on the floor giving her a permanent limp that my mom would not take her to the vet for. Two years later, she permanently tore his ankle up through his house shoe. He did not mess with her again, or keep her locked up in my room full time. She was still friendly to family and people I had no grief with,but I figured if that little furball could gain respect with someone grumpy and many times her size,maybe I should do the same. She did not take treat bribes from him, so why should I ignore when people show themselves?

I’ve done the silent ghosting to abusive “friends” or colleagues, just distance myself from them, don’t answer their calls/emails, decline invitations etc…. And one day they’re just out of my life and I’m content!

I don’t feel rage very often but I do get pissed in my own way, the best way I work through that is journalling!
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If you have nothing to hide from your partner, then yeah they can check your phone, emails etc at whatever time they want.

I think if both of you have all the sign in information then you “feel at ease” and feel trust that they trust you with your sign in/passwords.

Doesn’t mean you will go in and check emails etc, but just knowing you can, is enough.

If you have nothing to hide from your partner, then yeah they can check your phone, emails etc at whatever time they want.

I think if both of you have all the sign in information then you “feel at ease” and feel trust that they trust you with your sign in/passwords.

Doesn’t mean you will go in and check emails etc, but just knowing you can, is enough.

More tips from Evy please on 'when you're done you're done.' And staying done? 🙈

I think you can be a good Person but choose the people you are good to.
Our world needs love and kindness but know your worth.

You can still be nice and advocate for your needs although it takes energy and a willingness to walk away and stick to boundaries …the people whose thoughts I respect and listen to the most don’t swear and inspire me to the depths of my soul

This comment section is so amazing, thank you for all of the inspiration! Now I'll watch the video LOL

You are poison for all women!!!

Being nice is a coping mechanism for insecure people, let’s just face it, there is no point in trying to please people, first be the version YOU like and the ones meant for you will stand by your side.

I’m sorry but “know thy self” is NOT Greek! The Greeks stole it!
That saying is written in the pyramids in ancient Egypt!

I have grown a spine and I advocate for myself always …as polite as I can..
However it gets me kicked out

The conditional and unconditional trust explaining was really good
I get betrayed at work a lot but at this point it doesn’t hurt cos it’s conditional trust relationship

I have grown a spine and I advocate for myself always …as polite as I can..
However it gets me kicked out

Eva is so pretty. She looks like a Bratz doll.

People seem to be more afraid of people like never before. I can't believe the response I get if I look at a cute little baby or child. My goodness, I guess all of these tony disabled Grandmas must be stealing babies all over the place, left and right. Weird.