Navigating Family and Work Dynamics with Presence | Eckhart Tolle's Solution

Being a New Zealander living in New England USA I have found that almost everybody has a lot of mental problems here. It's actually a bit of an epidemic of lawyers mental illness therapies and medication

When I was a beginning therapist, I didn't know that I would need these spiritual teachings. Now I know, 40 years on, that they have made all the difference.

Thank you for difficult people😢❤

Thanks a lot Eckhart!

You're right, retrospectively, it all makes sense.

Bravo this is phenomenal ❤❤❤i love it every word ❤❤❤thank you so much and thank you for difficult people 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

Absolutely and completely brilliant, I’m going through family difficulties now and a lot of times I bring this peace to the situations but this has helped me to become more aware of how my ego and resistance can come in , thanks 🙏 and bless all the difficult people that come into my world ❤

You need to intensify your presence when you are with unconscious people. ❤😊

Thank you so much Brother 🙏😊

Does group energy mean positive thinking? Sometimes my mood is more serious. I bring down the happy ?

WOW!!!!! I REALLY APPRECIATE YOUR COMMENT: ' THROUGH SURRENDER,YOU TRANSCEND'......DANG GOOOOOD❤❤❤

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Difficult mother shaped my life for the better. When she died, I told my siblings, “Mom taught us how not to be. There’s value in that.” My life has not been easy, but her life was far more difficult. Bless you, Mom. 🙏

I am so grateful for this womans' observations....I observe this in my surroundings myself and my sensitivity is a sponge for the noise...Have to say, dear Tolle, that trancending is becoming harder, becaus our society has become more and more nousy....I have to escape into nature, there I find peace in myself ! Surrendering and accepting is very, very difficult for me...try by meditating every day..., but it is very, very hard and mostly my mind does not succeed !😢

By far my favorite teacher. Thank you

Very cool. I believe that with your schizophrenic family member, this person felt value when you sat there with them. They felt like they mattered, and so they were able to become "normal" again

May all who read this have blessings and depths of kindness on their way. Tiny things matter; a friendly smile,a helping hand,the smell of flowers you walk by or the kiss of the wind on the cheeks.🙏

A highly reflective talk.Thanks.

Thank you for this great insight! So glad I found this channel. I heard it is very difficult for a person to live in present when in a relationship. Is it possible for an awaken individual to have a relationship with another who is unconscious and still free themselves from mind? Thank you

Yes… like children, that’s what helps the most with difficult ones…

It’s quite difficult with extreme unconscious negative people to remain in the Presence, because the Presence accentuates the gap, between them and you and may scare them which may result in aggression. Also, they want you to engage, participate in whatever their mind is involved in, discussions, projects, slandering of others… if you remain aloof, they won’t tolerate they will attack. And finally, unless one is unshakably rooted in the Presence, it will be very difficult to maintain it! Talking of experience

😄thankyou so much🙏❤

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It is only when we are told we are going to die that we fight to live. After many years of suffering grief and depression after my husband died at 49 and i was left to bring up a family of five . 22 years later i have discovered a new way to live and bring joy and laughter to others. Many thanks to you.

My superiority came out so strongly to a toxic behaviour… resistance, judgement… o la la, I was shocked myself. Thank you Eckhart, you sweet soul ❤

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Wonderful!

What if you tell them you feel an ego struggle? I noticed if i tell them i feel that there seems to be an anxious or some other adjective energy and then they usually calm down or shut up, lol. If you name it, it loses power. Thank you for these uploads! I love them! So helpful...i wish i had the perfect word to express how good thse videos are.

Thank you so he explained it so beautifully

Hold the situation in your mind, invite a solution by initiating a thought such as, " I surrender this problem, this situation to be resolved through my connection to infinate intelligence. I invoke its power in opening me to an innovative solution." And so it is.........

Why is this lady being cagey with her answers? It’s not a reading lady 😂 hes trying to help you pinpoint YOUR issues to help you navigate life

Thank you. This is very helpful. I have a close relative by marriage who is bipolar and it's very difficult for the family member who is married to this person. She is extremely negative and if I or someone says anything even in discussion with another person she'll pick out something take it out if context and personally apply it to herself and go ballistic . My brother is regularly verbally attacked as are other people me included. She goes up and duwn in three monthly cycles. I try to keep myself present and realise it's a test. I'm very concerned for my brother as over the years it has affected his health. My husband and I are keeping distance now. Very sad as they are family and I miss my brother. But as you say it's a lesson and living in a rural area is a great help. I'm very grateful. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Her daughters try to get her to see a doctor but She refuses to take theopy. 💛U

More than 15 years of guidance from one of my favourite human beings . 💚🙏

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Thank you 😊

If I can, I still want to avoid difficulties in my life. But sometimes, I really appreciate what I’ve been through because it made me to seek what is true.
Thank you Eckart❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Exactly the teaching I needed to hear now.

For me it was that extreme, I had to remove myself from the situation, comes at a great cost though but at the end of the day it's the only way to walk away.

With meditation and learning, I am finally able to experience the detachment as an observer when I’m in dramatic/stressful work and life situations ..
it’s such a gift of peace and calmness. Thank you ! 🙏🏽

Wow .....i work in a correctional facility what a coincidence was meant to hear this

Thank you Eckart❤

Thank you thank you thank you ❤ so important in this time of the year when we surround by our family. Your words bring peace and allows love and acceptance into my life

❤ in appreciation.

I once worked in a city, by the ocean, that was very much a tourist town. Traffic everywhere.
Every day I would walk to work and pass a small house with a large mailbox that had a cover on it that read, 'Be Still and know that I am God'
Every day I would pause at that mailbox and close my eyes and just listen. Yes, there was traffic noise, but I could hear the wind blowing through the pine trees and hear children playing on the playground at the elementary school, the ocean nearby and when I opened my eyes, I could see bird's circling in the sky and hear woodpeckers in the trees behind me.
Every day I would pause when I saw that mailbox which reminded me, 'Be Still and know that I am God'

😂 “Thank you for difficult people.”

“You need difficult people to evolve.”

Practice to surrender, through surrender I transcend. Thank you Eckart