RED FLAGS When DATING THAI GIRLS!!

After 20 years living in Thailand. My best advice is to find a girl where she is working her Job (Real Job). There are only MILLIONS of those around every corner.

Red Flag, when she only chases White dudes on her media accounts. Gold Digger!

Thai here. I don't see problem with multiple phones. I have three of them sometimes at same time. One to video chat with partner. One open to translation app at same time. They all tied together to my social media.

One thing Noone ever mentions in any of these videos is if you in a relationship with a normal girl. There will be other jealous thai men that a Thai girl is with a farang. So trust her.

I've had Thai guys send old photos of us together or screenshots of video chats that are normal and they send them to foreigner to make them angry. Sometimes Thai men are more jealous than other Thai girls. Especially if they from poor village like me.

What about marrying Thai girls???

Hahaha. If you have the $$$ and know the deal. Date and have the fun you want.

Smack that A$$ boys. Just don't get googly eyed

When you go to a place where the community is aware of what they get and loose, it will influence and inspire them. Starting from kids. So hoping something else is foolish and it will only hurt, if not now

well.. you were saying that after a time you each start having feelings for each other.. this is simply not true.. the girls are PROS and YOU may get feelings for them.. but they aRE only INTERESTED IN YOUR MONEY. And you just off the cuff said you would be beholden to their family "sickness " etc.. NO! That "sick family" DOESNT even exist! Why does EVERY bar girl in Thailand have SICK family members? Because its a scam!!!! Dont give them money for that ! No money for "need tuition right now".. Have to get mothers medicine right now.. Have to move we got kicked out.. phone broke. Lost my luggage need new clothes! LOL! Just.. DONT do it.. UNLESS you are simply understanding you are PAYING for the scam.. and shes pretty and a good.... well.. you know what.. Anyways.. DONT BE SUCKERED!!

As a Thai person, I can approve his insights. Valuable content to spot the red flags. Well done delivered in an informative way. Don't let her beauty or kindness blurr your mind and your groin dictates your reality. You can get those women out of the bar, but you will never get the bar out of the women. Thank you.

dude man i wish i saw this before i went to thailand too late for me bro

Great info , thanks so much

Dating Thai Girls.Naaaaaaaa.Nice shirt mate!

Gross sexpat

Anyone going overseas to find a woman is a winner.

Never met such unlucky girls as Thai girls who always seem to have bad mishaps. Some examples: became ill and can't work, parents ill or had accident, grandparents in hospital, emergency hospital bill, motorbike stolen, car crash, break-ins, wallet pick pocketed, mobile phone broken, lost mobile, pest problem at the farm, laptop gone missing ...

i just came by and found, why I always paid for my meals when I dated when I could have asked them for money and paid!!! damn! didn't know thai girls could really make a lot of money from farangs :P THE BIG GREEN FLAGs I would advise, if you're a decent man, always go somewhere decent, always with good intentions, take time and start to know people one by one, smart enough, having good friendships and good connections, you're probably attracting the same type of people, simple.

She has lots of single male farang followers or she follows many on social media

Interesting story. Do you know why it's called Soi Cowboy? In Thai, Soi means alley. A black man who wore a cowboy hat started a strip club there in the 70s😂

don't go in thailand for a date. most girls there are enough arrogant and greedy.

For just good and funtime Thailand especially such spots as Pattaya, it's the perfect place. Looking for a serious and long term thing, it's definitely the wrong place.

Girls in Thailand are easily replaceable. If it doesn't work out, turn around and pick another. It's not like that in other parts of the world. So even if you loose money in the end, it's still a lot cheaper than dating a western girl.

women that travel lots are absolutely red flags...

This coward is sitting in a empty soi cowboy. Look at him??? Is he anyone's choice. I've been here 24 year, you're type only recently turned up. You know nothing!!!!!! Your here because you can't get a girl wanting you at home!

If you’re sending her money just think of it as an investment,, you stalk them the price will go up lol

With a cool ladyboy the past month. She’s paid for half of everything . Pretty badass !

Got it, don’t try to marry a hooker. I will probably fail at this.

Great stuff mate love your delivery just subscribed

A mate of mine lived in Thailand for 20 years, all the same old places pattaya, Phuket etc was a bar mongerer, decided to settle down, so went on a dating site. His criteria was everything you have just mentioned, along with no kids, but also she couldn't come from Isaan, make of that what you will. Some would say double standards, and I'm not here to judge.

This is an incredibly engaging and informative video! Especially when you're out there looking to enjoy yourself in Thailand. Currently I am making good use of Ling and Pocket Thai Master apps to fully grasp the Thai language. They're fantastic language learning apps and perfect for anyone looking to master a new language at their own pace. If you want to impress a lady with your Thai knowledge, I fully recommend those apps 555 At the end of the day, I really think it depends on the person

Dude you clarified not to date bar girls, but come on on and on get to the freaking point!

At the coffee dates/interviews I listen very carefully. my psychoanalysis is geared to look for red flags. Here are my top 5 no particular order: in deep debt, not graduated university, can't speak multiple languages, from Esan/dysfunctional family and is a single mom. By the third date if your observant everything will be obvious. Except, if she is a covert narcissistic sociopath.

Advices for fools. Everyone understands those things without being told. The problem is mainly that when some men fall in love quickly for prostitutes, they don't pay attention those red flags or advices.

Total BS. These blogs stigmatize these girls and encourage abuse. Keep an open mind.

I like the sock puppets getting sponsored. If i catch them slipping, ill get on her phone and take a pic of my junk and text it to her last 5 messages. Fight fire with fire. 😅😅😅

In other words, bang em all you want..just dont fall in love with one of em😂

Best place to meet nice girls

Never hook up with a bar girl.
She will just take you to the cleaners .
Step back from Thai women.
She will not change, you'll be eating Thai food. She'll stay in bed most of the day.
Do the home test , if I was in my home country and met someone who doesn't speak your language and she's asking you for money what would you do?

I had a wonderful girlfriend there, but she was so unlucky, because her buffalo would always get sick. We had to organise an operation for this poor buffalo. cost me so much money. ah well.

with me its the opposite, its my wife in australia that doesnt do any work. The GF in Thailand works all the time. in bars usually.

So, are you saying it's not a good idea to date a prostitute? 😂😂😂

These girls are loving and caring girls. They love you because you are a walking, talking ATM.😂😂😂😂

I would agree and stop with your rule 1, don't judge, but you know their job is eventually going to bring you to jealousy so avoid it.

dont date girls from bars. Period, if you meet a girl that says she is just out for a drink. that is a lie. a normal thai girl would never go to the bar or club. one very big red flag is tatoos. DONT go for a girl who has tatoos. those 2 simple rules will get you very far.also be carefull, many thai are crazy about social media. almost more then western girls.

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It's sad, for all involved, even her family, because how do they eat, medical education to get out of this circle of trash, and you want to be part of the solution not part of the problem but it is a Thai problem not yours. You are not an ATM and you too are an enabler. If you give money once, then to them, it means nothing to you. Be it 200 Baht, or 2,000 Baht you did it not her or them

Maybe a red flag is if they never leave their phone lying around. To have ultimate trust it should be totally ok to look through each others phones.

Hey guys, I've recently (maybe a week) started talking to a Thai woman from a famous dating app.

My Dad is convinced she's a Nigerian scammer really, but I'm just not seeing any red flags.

Firstly, I found her when trying to set up some dinner dates for a solo trip to Cambodia next month (she just happened to live within the extended search).

She wasn't in passport mode, which to me indicates that she wasn't trawling for western men to scam.

She frequently talks about wanting to be loved and to find a connection with someone.

Not once has she asked about my income, in fact I tried to head that off today by mentioning a couple of times that I'm not wealthy, and she was still affectionate and didn't change in her tone at all.

I've explained that happiness and connections are what is important to me and not cash or luxury items, again, no negative reaction at all.

She has her own little coffee shop outside of her house in the provinces (Surin) and has sent me a photo of her there, at work.

I don't know if I'm being incredibly naive, but as I'm flying to within a 4 hour bus ride of her in a month, I don't want to get to the point where I'm starting to feel something and then to realise she's trying to rip me off!

Any help or advice would be appreciated!

Im just here started yesterday inthat bar ok same old story u take girl out the. Bar butnot bar out the girl😅😅

You’re so chill. I see this in vloggers who’ve spent time there. I really hope this jai dee spirit comes to me.

2 phones, Dubai trip… these things are like instant ghost peppers on my spirit. I’d be really upset to “discover” such a thing. And I don’t want that. Chill and water off my back like a duck, as they say.

Look forward to BKK changing me in ‘25. Let’s try my long term luck. Thanks for the red flag awareness. 🙏🏽

The fact that she works in the entertainment industry, means she is only for FUN. Love isn´t ever an issue, she wants money that´s it. Think with the big head, don´t fall in love with these girls it´s stupid.

so many red flags bar girls have - disappear and go phone silent for days and or weeks and than say battery died or phone breaks - you go to meet her and she isnt there and mamsan or other girls say she just go to get something to eat she be back in one hour 555 - 2 phones - says she is going " back home ' for a week - or the temple for a week and no phones allowed - you can just never get to a spot where you can trust them and temptation is everywhere - you will never know the truth and eat yourself up trying to find out