Do Narcissists Know What Love Is? (The Answer May Shock You)

Best explanation on this 💯

I like that you mention they give half love which alot of them do

You are so right my lovely sister my was is sister.she tells him what to do.

They think intimacy = sex = love Everything else in this video is 100% spot on in my experience And they project everything onto you.

This is so true, but when exposure happens they will find themselves alone. No family member, friend, or anyone for that matter will put them first or equal in their relationship, so they’ll always loose in the end, and find themselves alone God bless them abundantly in all their ways in Jesus see us name❤️🙏🏽🤲🏽

You are so incredibly spot on. Always.

They know love...since love means one man committed relationship...they don't want that. Easy way to catch lot of supply is to detach from a person. No one love public bus , but use bus to reach destination, once reach destination who cares the bus...same mentality Narc with loved ones.

Imagine a person love strangers than dear ones....these people not only have no moral compass, but also pure evil...attention, controlling and illicit relationships are their bread and butter.

You are sooo right .He put everything and everyone before me and he is my husband..I was a fool tor many years

Narcissists need etiquette school. They stink at relationships! But you’d have to pay for it. Lol.

Absolutely spot on as always, i could never trust someone like that who cheats repeatedly zero moral compass, wish i had known then what I know now. As for the back ups forget it. Im a one man woman and expect a one woman man in return. One is never enough for them is it? Plus they are pathological liars. He was still in touch with his mother he never spoke about his father. He told me he used to be married for 28 years and his ex wife was crazy ended up in a nut house. Yeah i wonder why? If that was even true. I did the right thing blocking him everywhere and leaving in complete silence no warning nothing 8 weeks ago as much as it hurt ,and he hurt me deeply. He knows why too. Not treating me like trash the day after I came back from spending 3 days with him. Silent treatments and being passive aggressive the sarcastic. No reaction from me just silence no chasing him nothing. Waited 3 days for an apology nope so blocked him. I don't know who the hell they think they are? Whete do they find so many supplies? When they are 60 not particularly attractive etc etc? They can get on with their sad pathetic lives they know exactly what they are doing. Great podcast as always thanks Yaz. Wish I had never met him,was quite happy on my own for a very long time before encountering him. Never again. Thought by corresponding with him as friends for a year before meeting up ,thought i was being cautious never dreamed he would turn out to be a narcasist. Never my friend pretending to be my friend and was manipulating me the whole time. ♥️😊🇬🇧I divorced my ex husband many years ago because he was a womaniser i wont tolerate BS rather be alone thanks very much.

They're super lazy throughout the relationship , constantly stealing your energy until the day they are ready to flat leave you . While they're blaming you for their adulterous affairs you see a totally different person, full of energy while you're drained . Evil people

Is it true they are disconnected from their true selves? Therefore they can't connect with anyone? Thanks Yaz

Thanks for sharing valuable knowledge and insights.

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YES ❤👍👋

This is exactly it! 😡😡😡

Three things you need to understand about a narcissist:
1. They DON'T and WILL NOT love you.
2. They DON'T and WILL NOT think like you.
3. They DON'T and WILL NOT change.

Before analyzing a narcissist, you need to understand the above.

Note, I didn't say, they CAN'T, I said they WON'T and DON'T. Love from a narcissist is not IMPOSSIBLE but IMPROBABLE!

They put themselves before God...and when this happenined to me..
i told her ..
Read the word and obey or we're done.
EPHESIANS 5 VS 23-24

Love is selfless, a narcissist is selfish, so they can’t love.

Exactly sister

Mother issues - Unresolved Trauma

Narcissists have a cognitive awareness of love but they are unable to feel it.

They expect you too

Yes, yes, yes! They think the bare minimum is all that is needed at home, all the while carrying on with anyone who will show them attention. I am so glad we never had children; we shared a dog together and that was all I needed to know. His loyalty to our beloved dog surpassed anything he was going to show me.

This is exactly the way my ex husband was and still is

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤nice sharing.

I asked him to show me he loved me without sex or money and he couldn’t do it.

❤❤❤❤❤❤thanks sister for nice sharing. Same things are happening to me in narcissistic relationship.

This was so helpful to me! I cant thank you enough for your help!

I feel it's some like that but not all cause what's wrong with people loving other people in they life if the other if the spouse not treating you right

Narcissist with their children will only entertain them if the child is doing something that suits the narcissist. If the child wants to do something completely different opposite to what THEY WANT. Narcissist gets the other parent to take them to that event or whatever it May be .

Spot on💯. All facts!! This was my life for 25 years!!!!! Happily divorced since August 2024🙏🏽💯🙌🏾

No

They say “I love you” real quick!

My biggest regret, it was all a game😩😡

Narcs are empty cowards. They will never feel true sacrificial love. They are not from the spirit of God. A person with the true Holy Spirit knows how to give love and receive love. Narcs are beyond damaged.

Spot on

Sadly, THIS was my husband 😢

They feel very deep love............for other people's money if they can get their hands on it!

All true again yaz ,

Have I told you lately that you are amazing. Wow,

That's is exactly it .100% accurate.

Watch how they treat their children it will tell you everything you needed to know. Especially when your pregnant how he treats you is how he feels about you. Love is conditional to them. The show more vulnerability for Money thou. They Love money

They know what love is and they use it to hurt you. They use it for triangulation and other strategies.

That is so true Yaz…,the third party is always thought more of!! I was always at the bottom of his list.

This was sad… thank you:)

He ruined our relationship years ago because his mother said so, after that his next one too and now he went to Everest right away after a woman from my birth town reached the top of the mountain, unfortunately for him he reached just the base camp. :D

What women really need to understand is that narcissist or not, a man is primarily in a relationship for regular sex, not love. Given a chance, the majority of men will leave their partner for a younger, prettier woman. This is why single women are happier than married women. They are no longer in that cruel competition.

ITS ALL ABOUT POWER AND CONTROL AND TO HIDE THEIR CRIMES