Changing Your Attitude to Change Your Life I Robert Greene

I'm Going to Think about This 🎉😊

How can he love people who hurt them.

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Forgiveness is the first step in moving forward.

If your parents are excused because their lives went a certain way, then you have to admit that they are victims. And if you believe that adults can’t be held 100% responsible and don’t have full control, then you have to apply the same to yourself, and voilà, you become a product of your parents’ abuse and pass it on to your own children, because no one took responsibility and said, “Stop, we are not victims, and we don’t want to become perpetrators as a result.” That’s the easy way. I don’t want the easy way.

Its all about attitude.

These are magnificent choices ❤❤❤❤❤

Thanks Robert 🙏🙏

Genderbent Professor McGonagall spitting some real truth

In simple terms. Put away bitterness

I accept that it may be too late for others but its not too late for me. Don't lift up a person who doesn't want to be lifted up.

I can relate to this tipe of analysing conset of human disfunction, after living among 6 siblings. But to be honest, it wasn't until my late 30ths, did it realy find hold in my consciousness. Now, I listen, and smile, and even feel sorry, when there at their meaness. In other words, im above all that.

It works however it Takes years and years except financial differences

Love seeing ur cat 🐈 hope he’s fine

I feel honored to have read Chekhov and to be enriched by him.

Chekhov was The Real "I have no enemies"

Wow!!! I did this as a child to survive my family… crazy how liberating it is and crazy how at young ages we thought to do this to actually thrive.. not to just give in and just survive…

Thank you MR Green

He did the right thing. The people that abused him will keep being in misery. That's why they can't stand themselves and abuse others. He freed himself of others, of those that abused him. He has incredible power to see the truth and not taking things personally and seriously because traumatized people create traumatized people. Forgiveness is truly important

Yes you can forgive them that doesn't mean you should have anything to do with them though

Its true, this is what forgiveness does.

I love Russian writers! I recommend to everyone Dr Zhivago by Boris Pasternak and one of the best movies ever Dr Zhivago by English director David Lean.

My favourite chapter in your book. I read frequently to remind myself that I can change and my change can affect the people close to me

Unburdened by what has been 😅

Thank you for this confirmation 🙏❤️🌟

Everything changed for me too when i started thinking this way. It's such an amazing transition. Feels like true freedom

It took me till 7 years before my mom's death for me to do the same thing so it's nice to hear this man say somebody else did the same I only had one parent to overcome thank God there was enough she was about 20 parents in one so amen and in the end the last 3 years I can say she was my friend and I honored her and her death and that I give all glory to God for Jesus who died for the both of us may he see this in the end ❤❤❤❤

I shall endeavor to do this. I shuddered today when I read law 27 of the 48 Laws of Power, creating a cult. Donald Trump's victory doesn't seem so strange now...

I get it, but it’s not as easy as just letting all that pain go. Especially if it happens over years and years or there are triggers of trauma, or someone else comes along and does the same thing to you or worse. Forgiveness is okay but you have to rebuke the wrong doer too - because otherwise they’ll just go on to do it to others, and the next time it could be worse. That’s what narcissists, abusers and serial killers do. Forgive (if you have the strength), but teach the abuser a lesson at the time. If someone hurts you, don’t just sit there like a dummy and take it. Hurt them back so they learn a lesson!

He excused them because he couldnt accept the unbearable painful truth. But the lie worked for him. Wouldnt for me.

Well said

Needed thisssssss!!!! Thank you!! 😩🙏🏼💚

This is really powerful wisdom. I think a lot of us have parental issues that have, significantly and maybe not positively, affected our lives.

Powerful imperative content as usual. Poverty abused forgiving gave him freedom
Not all successful people were born with a silver spoon they take there misery and tirn into success miserable inspiration as a writer thanks for sharing
If ypur born poor not ypur fault to die poor is
Fonte the introverted published broke poet

Freed himself with love and acceptance. Powerful imperative content

We allllll can learn from this
Compassion

Act

Forgiveness ❤

true christian character

Chekhov had an AVERAGE childhood in russia

change your attitude towards life and heal but never accept an abusive parents or the trauma they caused

Blaming is not help us to solve problem.

Its all about this little word: "Attitude". Change how you feel (in this case you forgive) and how you think about things and people and you're life will change. How we see, perceive, interpret, react, respond to the situations we face in life, shape our lives and destiny. We all have at any moment the will and power to choose our attitude, but many of us do not exercise this power of choice.

“Forgive them for they not know what they do!” Jesus Christ
He knew that in order for human beings to let a burden go, we have to forgive. He understood human nature. Read the Bible it’s all right there.

Had a similar recent change. Just accepting everyone where they are. It’s also made me realize how much power we have when we just accept things and if it’s not to our liking decide what the next steps are. It’s true… a lot of folks are working from a different place and that’s ok.

He was unburdened by what has been

The sign of pardon is to desire sincerely that all of those who creates our difficulty be happy, if it is possible for them

Sure.

Ohh man you are legend. 🙏