Don't Be a Placeholder

Is Your look today inspired by Ariana Grande 😂loved it❤

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you are so funny and right!!!😅❤

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This is so important

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omg soooo true

When a man shows and tells you who he is Believe him!! 💯

Shera if I found you at 18 instead of 28 it would've saved me a whole decade of abuse and mistreatment by XYs. Thank you for everything you've done for womankind you're quite literally Sabi g lives out here. Thank you for your service. 🥹🫡

Yeah Lately, a couple of friends end up being placeholders. they were both dumped inexplicably after about ten months. these are middle aged women, one is my age 48, and my cousin is turning 60. Leveling up is soooooo important because they are great gals and didn't deserve that. But it is what it is.

@Shera one of my reg. Ladyl retail customers is 70+ and became a follower she heard your video wanted desperately to know your utube name ,said she funny and very classy!!

Never let a man question your worth. Remove yourself from the situation and leave.🎉

Eating your protein chips is so random Shera 😭😂❤️ CRUNCH

Exactly the message I needed to hear ! Thank you !!

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Once those men managed to level up after doing 50/50 with the placeholder / bob da builder type of chick / pickmeisha they gon' splurge for their dreamgirl 😂. I've witnessed so many cases like this, so be careful ladies 😅. You gotta make sure u ain't his placeholder / strugglechick

He said he was atheist so no christmas, my birthday's near Christmas so that went out the window too, valentine's day was apparently a pagan holiday so no to that too. No gifts on other days cause he's just "not the thoughtful type" and I put up with that for a whole year 😭 eh, I'm so glad I do better now😭

OMG … is he a pimp asking you to bring him the money?! 😅😂😂 I can’t … lol

I wish had meet her much earlier in my 20s it would hav been great learning through trier nd errors was the worst of all in my path

I eat those!!!!!

What makes a woman think they can change a man minds?

Women should never allow men to gaslight them into thinking that it is okay to go 50/50. Men are full of it because if it's the right woman, she will not have to do such thing. A man will give the woman he wants to be with the world.

Wise words were told ❤

People no longer approach live no matter how gorgeous you are

AGREE!

Those men who look better are those who dont work enough and live out women... their women are overwieght, stressed and doing lots of thing for the dude(giving her sexual energy, paying bills, cleaning, cooking, etc). This is terrible, I have seen couples like that all the time... of course they dont marry those ladies, but younger ones who dont give them anything. It is like they are sucking the women's energy to build themselves without giving anything in exchange, like a vampire.

It was low self esteem

You look more beautiful today than ever SheRa7 ❤🎉

SheRa I want to learn how to do my makeup like this.

You look pretty

Wow I never once thought to think Mary was lying and actually preganant by someone else 😂😂 crazy how they have us brainwashed

That’s what it is the technology making folks attached got it 📝

Some introduce you very early to their family to get their families approval or even pressure! Don‘t mix that up with not being a place holder. They can easily manipulate you by giving you the little crumbs you need.

the makeup ate 💋

A place holder is like being a Wife without the license or 💍. Not ME!✨️

the story of mary ..Hallelujerr 😭😭😭😭

You should sell Dust Proof Deodorant!!! I swear it’ll sell! Call it Dust free ha!

THE REALEST TO EVER DO IT

A shera a day keeps the dust away 😂❤

If you want princess treatment you have to look like his princess 👑

Your face is a lot slimmer are you taking ozempic too?

Thank you, Shera.

Aye I understand u.

Shera is a black Indian like me.

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Her: “He wants to be a rapper”
Shera:”Girl leave yesterday, the day before yesterday if you can” 😅😂

Makeup is on point ❤

I'm so embarrassed for being with someone for 13 years he proposed 3 times but I couldn't do it the damage was done 😢