#pov : the therapist friend… #relatable #therapist #friends #friends #shorts #shortsvideo

Me core 😍

The worst part is I’m the therapist friend

And the worst part is whenever you help people and they say things like “I wish I were you” , “what I have going is way worse than you you go through” ,and “your so lucky to have such a good life”

I’m the therapist friend and I try to keep everyone happy but they don’t care if I’m sad and they just keep complaining about their problems when I have a whole 100000 page book of trauma. And they won’t even listen..

I'm also a therapist friend, so I allow and do my best to make my friends happy. Even when I have to sacrifice myself (metally) so I just put their health before mine. :)

I am the therapist friend and everyone think I do not understand but I do

My best friend ayden was like this and my other friend karly was just like this Ayden was tired of life and karly was his gf they kept having talks making karly cry I live them but I think it is time they tell each other that this can’t work it puts so much stress on the both of them

It feels so bad trying to keep someone alive knowing you can barley keep yourself alive so you try and save someone else ,I know that feeling all too well

...The fact i can only vent to someone random on yt and not my friends is dumb i want to runaway,commit life is just to much for me to handle...

Pov: you had a big fight with your best friend..

Me: "WHERE'S MY MIND?" "WHERE'S MY MIND?!" "I lost my mind?..."
( Sometimes I can't control myself because I have anger issues.I don't have anyone to talk to, so I'll probably end it too..)

I burst into tears when I saw this bc my sister was my best friend, but she commit 2 months ago. I was like her therapist and she sent me in those exact words that she was done with life, she hung herself in her closet later on. Now I have depression and am seeing a therapist bc I was not mentally ok when she died

im the therapist friend in my friend group and i have very bad depression and anxiety. no one notices it. i help my friends with all their problems but i also need help with mine.

You know my friends vent to me how they want to end it all for the most childish things while I attempted 4 times for a real reason. (Im being abused and cant take it anymore, just to clarify i do have a real reason) Its kinda selfish from all that people to vent to me every day but never ever remember to ask just simply: “are YOU okay?”. And who do i ask for help when i dont want to be like them and vent to someone who is struggling anyways? If i did i would be attention seeking because they “are actually serious about that” like IM NOT??

Tw:sh vent?
This is me with people I don’t even know..everyone talks abt sh and wanting to end it to the point they don’t realize how much it also affects people who struggle with it. My bsf was going describing how her sh looked one night and she wouldn’t stop. It was terrifying knowing that she wasn’t even trying to stop the bleeding..everyone I’m struggling with it she leaves me on read..

This happens a lot to me, if anyone is in this position like I am, or even something like this. My advice is to either guide them to go talk to a adult, like their parent or therapist (if they have one) but it that doesn’t work, then try to help them, but not fully help them so they can solve their own problems a lil bit on their own, but also your guiding them. If you have any other tips pls let me know, but that’s just my advice hope that helps ❤️

Also remember, you can also reach out to people, if your friends are just non stop talking about themselves and not checking in on you, then they MIGHT be toxic. Your mental health and physical health is also important as well!! ❤❤

….. yup that’s me I’m the therapist friend and I wanna tell my friends how I feel but I’m scared cause I overthink everything and I think there not gonna listen to me so I just hide my feelings 😢

As a therapist friend it’s ur always there for ur friends but when u need them there never there

Feeling like you did something wrong

My friend said that she might kill herself and i keep trying to tell her that her life is important but she doesn't listen and just keep complaining that no one cares about her.....

My best friend tried to commit suicide 3 times and it’s honestly tiring just to try and comfort her at this point but then at the same time I feel guilty that I’m not doing enough to save her. I’ve gave her advice but she doesn’t try to get better. I don’t even vent to her anymore because I know she’s doing worse but still. I may be selfish but I just don’t have the time to focus on myself.

My friends my therapist..

I am a people pleaser so when my friend was about to give up I put my mental breakdown aside to help them


If I ever have a mental breakdown and someone is suffering I will put myself aside and help them

My friend wants to at least hold on till after Halloween. She has attempted 4 times i believe. Its almost Halloween

Me 🙁🥲

I was venting and they said “kill me! I really wanna die” and that sentence killed me and now I don’t wanna vent to them ever again bc they just turn the vent towards them. Recently, I was telling my friends how I was itching myself and accidentally cut myself and they said “give me your nails” the group went silent and they looked at me and said “I’m joking I’ve been clean” like idc if you’ve been clean js don’t make jokes like that. And the other day I was having really bad cramps and wanted a hug from them while they were talking with their friends d they pushed me away so I hugged my other friend and they said “what’s wrong?” I looked at them and said “you pushed me away” and they said “I’m sorry I didn’t mean to” but I’ve felt with so many fake apologies so I didn’t believe them that they were sorry.


(Sorry for this very long vent)

So sad

I was literally running to the bathroom with tears running down my eyes and had a full mental breakdown in there

im glad because i let go of that friend who did that to me.
but shit. even after 3 months this shit still fricking hurts.

Casually just explains my life:

You look just like Emily Dobson

Then there comes the time when they finally ask you to vent but then you can't.. Because ur to used to listening

My best friend has literally said after something comes out she’s ending it, but something in me keeps saying, “don’t tell the counselor! You know you should be dont!” If and when she ends it, I’m losing my mind

Real! Us therapist friends are always the shoulder to cry on but never have that shoulder ourselves. 🥲

Umm I just got a text 10 minutes ago that my friend is decided to give up. And he has tried so many times and I have told him it was going to be ok. But today was his last day. He told me he gave up. And now he won’t reply to any of my messages. Please send prayers to my friend Kevin.

i was once the therapist friend but i dont know how to talk to ppl and i was was in the wotst point of my life and then i went to school and my friend starts venting like crazy abt her siblings or smt and idk how to talk to ppl so i said smt and my other friend screamed at me and so did everybody else saying im not helping and that im a horrible friend and everybody hated me. (sry if im venting im not trying to)

And we get a new mental breakdown from that

"i give up"
ur making me feel like its MY fault.

I want to give up too but the friends who want to give up i need to help them

I’m the therapist friend and I’m so afraid of this happening cause my friend is going through a lot and I don’t wanna fail I don’t wanna lose them

Yeah it's true but then when I try to talk to my friend they just don't even answer

This hits home. I feel free online though.

As a therapist friend I could totally agree with this and this is the reality of being this type of friend and let me add on to this idk if this goes for everyone but this is from my experiences so I do have mental break downs very often and when stuff like this happens like these text it gets me very worried and if they do hurt them self’s it makes me feel responsible for what happened to them etc also this is just the tip of the iceberg

after you spend hours trying to convince them to stay they stop answering and you start blowing up their phone just for any sign of them alive and you start grieving someone who you dont even know if they are alive or not

This hit me hard.. I’ve been struggling to with my mental health bc of this. I have the feel to make sure all my friends mental healths are better and don’t pay attention to my own needs…

Stop this is me, also the happy friend! My friend saw a pic of me crying and said “you cry? Or is that just water”. It’s so HARD

As a "therapist friend", i am the one who always fixes the deep thoughts..but have anyone ever wondered even I need someone to talk to?...

This is the most accurate video.
Being the therapist friend I can confirm. I was having a bad day today but then I've to go to my friends just to make them feel better.
Yk what hurts even more that they are using me and nothing else.

My friend has really low self-esteem and can’t talk to her boyfriend because of her parents and says she has a horrible life and she talks about it all the time. I tried my hardest to make her happy and to try and lift her spirits, but sometimes it doesn’t work, so I sometimes feel like a failure.

I refuse to cry. For anyone else its normal. But i feel pathetic. Weak. A pathetic useless being if i do