how to stop self-sabotage from ruining your potential | the signs, causes and solutions to beat it

loved the blueberry part ❤🫐

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blueberyyyyy!!!!

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This is such a wonderful video Tam! Thank you for this🥹❤

Tam thank you so much for all your amazing work! You have changed my life for good!

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The timing of this ❤

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I ordered your book today..
Now its mine huehuehehu

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This video led me to the most productive shadow work journaling and meditation session I've ever had, a full blown breakdown and then a breakthrough. Thank you for doing what you do Tam, you're like the sister I never had! 🤍

Blueberry for sure!!

Watching this at 6AM feels too good🥰

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Great video Tam ❤

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What if we visualise some achievement and yet you can't achieve?
Won't it break our heart again?

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even though i watched the whole video i still got confused about blueberry and i rewatched it again😭

THIS HAIRCUT

One year ago I wanted the affection from my peers so I did anything to make them like me. I was very rude and I put people down so I thought I’m doing this right but I’m not and now I’m at a point where I don’t have friends that put me down or be rude now I have friends that are so uplifting that it puts all the joy on me to be more positive too, and that is something I’ve always wished for ❤

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What do u do when u visualize somthing daily, picture things working out for you but when it comes down to it what u visualize didn’t happen and now ur even more heartbroken. How to remain calm and stuff

I will reduce my laptop screen time on yt more, I will watch only 1-2 videos of you and some motivating to work and become better ytbers, I will literally leave the thoughts of my ex soon and not care about him as he is that one toxic brat that idk how i let go off thank god i did, tho i miss him, this if for my own good, i will try mastering detachment, i get attached to ppl or stuff super easily, im gonna work out every single day and meditate really importantly. I will study almost the whole day apart from the time I'm gonna work out or eat and spend a little time with my mom and my brother. Though it feels shit atm Ik things will get better, Ik I will get good friends the best ones I hv ever had and they will remain my friends for life, I will have an amazing new partner who is so damn loyal. Most importnatnly ik that I will become rich, a millionarie by 2029, idk how yet, but I will by next year. Im made for the extraordinary!

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i guess i got the blueberry first

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thanks🤍

O M G the visualization part was an eye opener!! Bad outcome scenarios are keeping me stuck in various ways so I will definitely start visualizing GOOD and AMAZING outcomes to lower the threshold to actually do the things I need to do in order to become better and grow! Thanks Tam <3

this video is really helpful, but I think there’s a little bit of toxic motivation here. “while you can’t decide what to do, others are already doing” okay? but this isn’t about them, this is about me. it’s called “self-obsessed” for a reason. yes, I might be struggling, but I’m working on it. and if other people are taking action, then good for them. I don’t want to push myself, just because others are already on the next page. I have my own rhythm and I’m gonna follow it.
thank you for the video. this is just my take on this topic.

currently reading your book, and i is truly one the best one i have rea so much , you have really worked on ' how to do part' thank you soo muchhh